Only times I got laid was when I go out with a mate who cares about whether I get laid or not and we get on well, have a laugh, he spots a girl smiling at me and tells me to go for it. And when I lock up, I look at him and he then says go on or tells me what to say then it gets going. If I even attempt this stuff on my own I give off some aura that totally turns girls off but I don’t know what it is. Its highly frustrating that knowing if I had a mate who can successfully get girls on his own and who I get on with (in two instances I was lodging in these guys houses). It was so easy because girls see you with a genuine friend and instantly find this really attractive and want to get to know you. How do I put this across when I’m living on own in a town where I don’t know anyone like this and so don’t come across as someone who girls find at all interesting even if this is my intention?
I tell a lie I did get laid once with a girl I knew on my own but she was like ‘oh here we go’ when we did the deed so what does that mean its like I’m giving out a ‘ho hum this is just boring’.
How do I create the same SPAM around me when I’m on my own and out in a seemingly not very friendly town compared to being at some guys house lodging and having this creating all the backup and tension to get a girlfriend????