When I go out to approach, I'm great at eye contact. I can always make others be the first to look away. In case you're a total newbie, I'm talking about making a woman look away first to convey dominance and create sexual tension.

Here's the problem. Sometimes when I'm out and about with no intention of approaching women, because I'm not in the mood or having other things going on, I'll accidentally make eye contact with a totally hot chick that came out of nowhere.

it's like "Woaw. Completely unexpected."

And when this surprise happens, I have a tendency to only hold the eye contact for like 3 seconds before I look off to the side (but for some reason I can always make guys be the first to look away, even if the eye contact is unexpected).

And so I don't approach this hot chick because I feel like I lost the eye contact game.

Anyone else have this problem?