So in my small town in California, i met this girl in one of my College classes. I did all the basic gaming to her, yknow flirting, getting her number, and it all worked perfectly like usual with girls . She began to call me everyday to hang out but usually i was busy(ive hung out once with her for like 3 hours), she seemed really needy or i thought that she liked me alot. We really have a nice connection and shes extremely comfortable with me and trusts me with alot of her secrets, and ive known her for like a 1 1/2 Weeks. Yesterday i called her to ask if we were going to the club and if i could bring one of my female friends. Somehow the conversation turned into her talking about her insecurity of being extremely ugly and she just kept on giving me examples. It was seriously shocking cause shes like a 9/10. I wanna know how i can help her but not get into the friend zone and steal her away from her boyfriend, because they are deff not THAT serious when she talked to me about wanting an open relationship. But the thing that kinda turned me off was her complaining and then how she wouldnt give me a hug cause she considers it cheating.... even though she touches me every chance she gets and gets close to me and always wants to hang out.

Can you say... FRIENDS ZONE??? lmao

you're already in it by the sounds of it
# She doesnt want to hug you because "Its cheating" (Bull Fucking Shit!... she doesnt want to hug you because she doesnt see you in a sexual light!)
# She called you every day to "Hang out"? and you finally make yourself free and you hang out for 3 hours and do nothing sexually with her? You should be creating so much anticipation and sexual tension that boyfriend or not she'll want to fuck the shit out of you lol..
# She tells you secrets after a bit over a week of knowing you? i think you might have started gaming her good and then got to the comfort zone and havent escalated!

It was good you thought about bringing in a jealousy plot line... but dont ask her if this other girl friend can come... be a man! be the alpha male who does what he wants when he wants!

hope that helps mate

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

Well, lol obviously i know it was bullshit. Usually im a smartass about this shit, but this girl is different somehow, so what would i do to at least get a hug haha. But couldnt it just be a test? And how would i create some good sexual tension to save myself? Btw this girl is just straight up crazy, i swear she gave me 20 examples of how ugly she is and different situations.

Oh and she just told me about her insecurities yesterday, and im hanging out with her very soon.

Haha ok sweet well...

Ok so you've been kino escalating flat out? if you have then hopefully there is a little bit of sexual tension... try the 2 steps forward 1 step back to create anticipation, use the push pull method...

shit yeh it could just be a test lol... friends hug... lovers kiss... who cares about Hug closing her lol... rip out the boyfriend destroyers! they work wonders lol

Yeh thats a little weird that she's telling you deep shit like that... i'd probably suggest running for the hills because this one has some big issues... but they could be shit tests... she may be just fishing for compliments... dont give her any! either ignore what she says and change the subject or ask her if she's just fishing for compliments and that it doesnt work on you because you only give compliments unexpectedly...

ok well if you're hanging out with her soon i'd start getting my arse into gear to moe this hoe down lol (just a figure of speech lol)

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

Well now this chick, stood me up, after i decided to leave the place me and my friends were chillin and go outta my way to meet up with her. I told myself id only do what she wants once and see what i would get from it, cause usually i do whatever i want and dont get controlled. I was gonna go to her house then she said she had to go to the store but wanted to meet up (it was 10:30) i called her and she txted for me to wait. Then i called again and she didnt pick up. So after 15 min of waiting i just texted her that i went out on a limb to meet up and that i dont play games, so im just gonna leave.

With this type of chick it seems that she likes guys talking about her instead of other girls or else she starts to get insecure about herself. Maybe you can try flooding her with compliments for a short period of time then ease off and see if she comes any closer.

get rid of her... dont bother texting her anymore she's trouble... fuck her off

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

I guess ill just confront about the game she played last week next time we hang out. Then ill figure out exactly what shes after, compliments or whatever. Then ill just try and build mad attraction and if i dont get a kiss or something outta it ill just let her go. Since i have 3 other new girls who i can meet up with now haha

A girl never likes that his friend should be with some one else and will certainly consider it cheating.

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