Long story short, I didn't pick up her phone call one night, and apparently she was being followed by some creeper, on her walk home. I txted her like 20 min after she called jsut to see if everything was ok, n She started txting me, "Now you reply when I could've been dead. I call you and my mom, neither of you pick up. I was being followed. blablabla" I told her I was in the bathroom. She's like, "it takes you x amount of time to get out of the bathroom." I was like, "I can tell you're in a bad mood, I'm not gonna talk to you until u feel better. Night." I txtd her the next morning, n she didn't respond 'til like 8 hours later. And when she did, there short responses. We haven't texted at all today. Usually, she says good morning to me, we txt a bit throughout the day, and then we say good night.

On that same day where she was being followed, we txtd a lot. I was pretty much mirroring her. If she responded with an IOI (babe hun, or something positive) I did the same. Vice versa. Either we over texted that day... or she got pissed when I told her that she's in a bad mood, tty when your feeling better.

Ever since then, I seen her once from a distance while i was driving, she seemed excited. Blew me a kiss. But the txting just isn't their lol

Don't get to her level. Just because she barely texts you doesn't mean you must do the SAME. And by this, no I don't mean kissing ass back to her. I am talking about 100% not showing any signs to her over texting. Don't even respond to her when she texts you good morning, nothing.

By barely texting you, she's getting you to jump through her hoops. Handle it maturely and don't stand for it.

Nyseto - So we haven't texted at all today. Ever since the creeper incident, she hasn't txtd me "Good morning" or anything like that. (Been 2 days) R u saying that I should txt her. I don't wanna come off as clingy or annoying, cuz I'm really not. My plan, which I don't know is the right way to go, is not to text her until she txts me.

That's exactly what I was saying lol. Don't text her until she texts you. And when you see her in real life, minimize your interest in her (body language-wise). If she wants to play and not text you and blow you a kiss in real life, then just keep a straight face and don't smile back or anything. So like, show her some indifference body-language wise by not looking at her when she says something to you, etc.

But don't ignore her completely. Respond to some things she tells you, but give her short and back-handed responses. Like if she says, "Today I fell down the stairs and it hurt!!" Just say, "Hm, clumsy." and don't look at her. Better yet, if there are some people nearby...when she says something to you, just randomly turn your head away and talk to the other people. Better yet, give her short and witty responses that take a WHILE to figure out. That way she won't be able to come up with any good comebacks.

The creeper thing was a shit test to make you kiss ass to her and say, "Oh I'm so sorry this and that!" And you responded to her like a high value male should, with indifference. On the outside, she displays herself as if not liking the indifference you showed her, but on the inside you multiplied her attraction towards you by 2x. So just keep that in mind.

If you're texting so much, text her that she can take a 12 inch dildo and shove it up her ass.

And now seriously, she wants you to feel bad and awkward and suck up. FUCK. HER.
Just freeze her out, and move on. She will soon realize what she is missing, and crawl back on her knees.

And ffs stop texting so much.

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with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

Nyseto - Ahh got it, thanks.

Spexx - On a high txting day, it's probably 20-30, incoming and outgoing with her. But I'ma try to keep it to 10 max for the future. Thx.

Spex, the goal of PUA is to always win in the end. You cannot guarantee that she'll come back on her knees for him, she could have nerves of steel instead. It's easy to say "fuck her" but she is his gf, he wants something out of it, not a break-up...that's a fail.

Being a PUA is not about being a little child that plays like a little sneak. Being a PUA is about being a real man with the real moves. Most people here got the right moves, but they're not real men. You would be amazed at what you can find out from girls towards many people here online. What if your gf thinks, "He's just acting like a kid and hiding, he's at my own level now." People here take the PUA thing way too extreme to the point it that it feels like a step by step process that they should do.

No, don't do that. Be direct with her THIS time and just say, "Out of all the many people texting me, I don't see any from you. It looks like you're pissed."

Girls LOVE communication. Not communicating with a girl can have DIFFERENT effects on her...this is what people don't know. You can either make a girl wonder and wonder by being vague with her, or you can make her think that you're just ignoring her and acting like a little kid.

Girls gossip like hell too. You would be shocked if your gf told other girls "Yeah my bf isn't texting me either, he's playing around like a child." Don't ever get ahead of yourself and think you're making the right moves when you could find yourself to actually be really stupid.

Well I got to admit I didn't notice the (only)word girlfriend in the headline, thought he was talking about some random chick. My bad.

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

The best PUA is the one that thinks like a girl and acts like a man. Both you and your gf know that you're playing a game right now between each other by not texting each other like little children. Her mindset now is on the thought that it's all a game. You get her out of that mindset by just being natural about it and telling her what I told you. (Breaking the ice, making it OBVIOUS that you two are ignoring each other).

Performing a freeze out only really works when it's unexpected. So right now she's 100% aware of what you're doing and she's freezing you out as well. Use maturity to break her away from that.

Every dating therapist out there would tell you that communication and arguing is important in relationships. Freeze outs work, just not in your situation.

Being fake is when the girl knows exactly what you're up to. Your freeze out has no validity in this case because she knows it. So go with the natural path for THIS case. Notice I capitalized "this." I did because every case is unique in its own way.

Hmm... we'll she just txtd me, "Hey what u doing". Usually that means she wants to hang out, n her classes just got done with. I honestly can't though, got a midterm. I feel like using your line Nyseto, with a little switch up, "Out of all the many people texting me, you finally come along". Hopefully that'll make her answer the indirect question of why hasn't she been texting. And you're very right, think like a women, be a man. That REALLY is key.

+1
I hate the the use of the term "PUA", but you basically nailed it.

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

I wouldn't text that. Don't be stalling on emotions you don't want you and her to have. Just move on and forget about the fight.

I personally would text "Thinking about you baby" or something like that.

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

So your girlfriend has been probably traumatized during that night and your response is to ignore her? Good luck on that outcome, but I would suggest comforting her about the situation. Don't get me wrong don't apologize for not picking up the phone, but definitely talk to her and let her know you wish you could of been there for her. either way ignoring a girl in a relationship does not work the same way as in pickup so stop doing it.....

I don't think he should say he wished he was there for her. That's failing her shit test. It will look like he's using just to get along with her again. No drop that, don't even bring up the past. Real men don't bring up the past and say "I should of...I should of". Your only tenses are the present and the future. If you think about what you did in the past, keep it to yourself and learn from it.

And next time when you freeze her out, do it for something worse. Like if she starts calling you names and talking smack or just does something bad to you. That's when it really counts as punishment and she'll be the only one at her own level to realize that.

Other than that, you can just freeze her out for 2-3 days when everything between you two is going well. That's when it's least expected to freeze her out and it will be a legitimate way of making her "miss" you. But she may come with a shit test and be like, "Oh you don't like me blah blah." You just respond with something like, "Yeah, I was just busy. How about you?" You know, in a chill fashion as if you don't know what she's talking about.

Yeah, what he said. You should only text her that if she still hasn't responded. But now that she responded back to you, you don't need that anymore. Because if she just opened up to you now and you bring up what happened before, you'll make it all awkward for her. Just go with the flow, it's not rocket science.