When I'm asked by a girl if I have a girlfriend, what is the best response I can give. I'm looking for something DHV and wondering if anyone out here has a go to answer.

Thanks all.

You could say you haven't found a girl with the right personality features or someone whom you have a lot in common. This shows your selective and don't judge girls on their looks. You could also DHV by saying lots of girls want to get in a relationship with you but they don't suit you!

DHV:
"its hard to find someone who meets my standards."

"my last girl was too clingy so i needed a break"

On the last one you can Substitute clingy for jealous and make up a bullshit story about her doing some crazy shit like writing girls on ur facebook or something that will keep them engaged in the convo...

Playful negs:

"what is this an interview or something?" *confused/sarcastic (smile) look on ur face*

"lol you ask alot of questions i should have just brought my resume"

Depends on what you're trying to do. If you're in attraction I would do what ImNaShitFool says and neg or I would would say "Whoa slow down we just met!"
Maybe go humorous: "Thursdays are open and Fridays are reserved"

If you're in you're in comfort you have to answer seriously. In that that case I would say "I'm looking for my soul-mate."
You can even answer the question with a question: Why are you here in this club? Why don't you have boyfriend?

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Definitly go humorous as mentioned above.

Looking for your soulmate is too extreme.. That will scare her away... U wanna leave her w. The impression that it's up in the air.. While still looking high value.

N I wouldn't say "why don't u have a bf" for a few reasons.. A. What if she does? Whoops B. It sounds defensive & C. U could Sorta blow her out by delivering it wrong.

thanks guys, i like those answers for DHV.

what about an answer that is more in line with "direct game?" anything go-to? short and sweet.

yeahh, about 10 of em on the go at the moment, do u want to join the list?

Honestly this line can be more of a test than a chance to DHV. A good line I've heard is "Well, committed relationships aren't something to rush into, so I'm waiting until I find someone who's really right for me."

It just shows that you have class.

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im liking the cocky/funny responses a little better than the more serious ones. the "classy" ones sound like excuses; I like to avoid qualifying myself...

keep it coming if you guys have other thoughts

I've had the situation where I've been asked - and said 'No'.

Turns out the girl had a boyfriend. I got into bed with her, but she was really selective about what she wanted to do without being a 'bad girlfriend'. (i.e I won't kiss you on the lips etc)

With retrospect, had I said that i had a girlfriend I think I would have got further with her. As we'd BOTH be the ones being unfaithful.

You could tease her about it first, with saying something like "hey is this an interview?" or "wow we've just met and you want to know my whole lifestory!"
The girl won't be satisfied by your answer and will be wanting for more. After building enough attraction, you're allowed to go comfort. She will ask you again. Then you can go seriously. Say that you like flirting with girls, and that you enjoy their company. Tell her that you are not specificly looking for the right girl, but that if there is a special girl that you would go in a relationship with her. Tell her "beauty is common" and that a girl needs other qualities and such.

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It depends.

Do you have a girlfriend? If so, say yes. If she is still ready to go, then fine, if not then fine.

Then of course, you could argue, if you have a girlfriend, why are you out trying to pick up girls?

If not, just tell her no.

I mean, why apologize for anything. I have got a very good friend (girl) who says it like this. Yes, Im single, why should I be satisfied with anything that is not perfect for me. Why waste time on going exclusive with someone I dont expect to spend my life with, I might miss the opportunity of my life.

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I like that Ezo.

I've always said, there is no point in having a girlfriend if the potential isn't there to spend the rest of your life with her..

Otherwise you are completely wasting time, when you could be out gaming, and living a life thats much more exciting.

I had one girl like that.. and when we broke up, it broke my heart.. However, I'm back to loving being single again, just like i did before her. I'm sure another girl will come my way that i feel the same way about eventually, But until that time, i would never have a casual girlfriend just for the fuck of it.. unless you know the benefits outweigh the costs... You miss so much of your life pass you by when you are committed in a relationship.

Go out and game, and live your life.

If you get asked, go the honest route, and say "no"

or if you wanna go the C/F route, just in a calm voice say one word.. "Thousands." and wait for a response, (generally laughter)

thats so far my favorite response to "do you have a girlfriend?".

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thats going in my back pocket, mrcoffee.

short and sweet, makes it sound as if you get asked that question all the time.

thanks boys.