Home coming is coming up, and I'm not going to go cuz I'm in college... I'm too old for that shit. She's in HS. It went something like this, via text.

Her: Are you coming to homecoming with me?

Me: Babe, I'm too old for that lol

Her: But then I have to bring another dude cuz that's mean.

Me: You bring another dude, and you know what's gonna happen. *Me breaking up with her* Go with ur girlies that night, and we'll chill some other time.

Just an FYI, we've been dating for 2 weeks, and we have had like 3-5 break ups, but when we make up. The last time we made up, I told her specifically that we cannot have any of these fake break ups, when I was going over some rules.

Now when I seen her today, like an idiot, I brought up homecoming lol. She said, "You're friend is going" blabla. I told her I'm not going, and she said, "But so many guys have asked me." I just kinda motioned I didn't care. Then as we were parting ways she asked if I was going again, I said no. Then she said, "I'll break up with you." I replied, "I already told you. If we break up again, it's going to be permanent." She said, "ok" and the subject quickly changed, n we said our goodbyes. (Goodbyes as a bf/gf, not as in leaving the relationship)

It gets annoying her shit testing me about breaking up. One time, when we had our "break up", I txtd her right afterwards saying, "Real bf/gf don't do that. It's cool... We can still be friends. " blablabla. N she was tryna play it off at first, but she wanting back in after a few min. So my question is, next time she threatens to... "break up", or even threatens to go with another guy to home coming, or something... what should I do? I'm thinking about saying, "No honestly, you really wanna bring another guy to home coming?" Her, "Yeah". Me: Shake my head as if she just said something stupid, then go away from her, not saying a word.

There's times to be a PUA and times to be a boyfriend. That's the reason you got into a relationship. Acting like a non-challant PUA wont get you very far in a relationship. If you make that commitment, be prepared to go against some basic rules that you conditioned yourself to when you learned all of this. Thats the sacrifice of 'settling'.

The homecoming means alot to her, and it'd make a great impression as a boyfriend for you to go. If you're going to be in the relationship, your going to at some point in time do things you wont like. And why not go? You might get a blowjob or fuck from it at the end of the night anyway.

Im not trying to bust your balls man but I see it often on these forums. People go about all women in their lives (FWB, Girlfriends, Best friends) the EXACT same way, but your not gonna get the same results from them.

You're also entitled to do what you want, of course. So is she. IF you wont suck it up and go, she's free to do what she wants. Women will LOVE to hold this shit over guys heads.

My personal advice: Suck it up and go. Have a good time! You're friends are going, right? Then go and have a blast. If you are at all serious about the relationship, going with her will be HUGE brownie points. And you'll probably get laid that night too.

Homecoming's do suck But the whole world of suck that awaits you if you dont go will be worse.

Edit (Just another thought): Attractive women will always have the stable of men at there beckon, but she's with YOU for a reason. Dont let it rattle you, giving her that Ultimatum shows that you're insecure about her being around other guys in that situation. There's nothing wrong with that by the way, perfectly natural.... just dont let her know that.

In the ultimate end, if you're not there she can take anyone she wants and do anything with anyone she wants. You're obviously concerned about it, so why not save yourself the heartache and just go?

Because I'm a college student, and she's a highschooler lol. DLV'ing my ass if I go, wouldn't it? I only have 1 other friend that is dating a highschooler, n he's going... so I might go. But fuck, I better get something out of it.

If thats such a big deal...why are you in a relationship with her in the first place? Fuck DLV. Go out there and get sum! Worrying about stupid shit wont get you anywhere but cheated on.

Well, unless of course your by law NOT supposed to be with this girl? What kind of age gap are we talking here?

i gota say this is quite hard

If you are worried about DLV while in a relationship then you definitely shouldn't or aren't ready to be in one; that or you are insecure about your girl. Honestly tho, I am assuming you are with this girl for a reason so why are you scared of some impressions??? You are going there to be there WITH HER not to pick up other girls.....

Age gap is 2 years. But I better get some! Any tips for the first time?