Okay I fucked this up... Been doing a lot of night game lately, #closed a chick just as I was leaving, but I didn't know the whole text her a couple minutes later, so now it's been 3 days. How do I play it from here, or should I just delete the number and forget about it? I've just been concentrating on opening sets so the #close was pretty much an accident really.

Feel like a real idiot, cause when I #closed I acted pretty AFC. Talked too fast, didn't make good eye contact and ejected way too quickly. I had opened her earlier in the evening, and it was going sweet, she even approached me as I was leaving. Have to get the AA under control even that late in to it.

Text her something random without expecting a response back. If you can fit in anything at all that you guys talked about, it's a bonus, e.g "haha I just heard that Cee-lo song again and now it's fuckin been in my head ALL DAY!" because you'd been talking about the song, or something. If not, just "omg the most random thing happened!" is good.

If she gets back to you with ANYTHING, then your next text should have a little joke or something, then an invite to a fun, interesting day 2 on a weekday evening.

If things went the way you said, she will likely flake or not reply at all, but to be honest who the fuck cares, it's one girl? Just shoot the texts out there and see what happens.

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Hey thanks man... I see your advice all over the forum, it's solid.

I sat and thought about it and I kinda got an idea. See, I ended up knowing people she studies with. I sthemout pretty often, and apparently they're good friends. Although I did give her a hard time making out like she was just trying to impress me by saying she knew them... Anyway, I figure forget the texting, just wait till I see her again, and game her when I see her. If she asks about why I didn't call or whatever, I'll tell her I forgot I had it...

What do you think?

I'm almost certain she's just gonna ignore it or flake if I text or call, this way I kinda get a second go.

Social circle game will always trump cold approach game because there is social pressure to at least be polite to other people's friends. So yes. However, there's nothing wrong with texting her asking if she's going to your mutual friend's party or whatever. If she's not invited, then you look higher value than her because you have been. If she is, you two are equal social value in her mind. Then you can just game her as normal, but she may be wondering when you'll arrive, so you're in her mind a bit up until the party or social situation and during it until you walk in the door. Your approach will be a lot easier and as long as you hit the attraction switches, kino escalate with push pull, qualify, build comfort, and isolate well, you'll be fine.

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Hell yes! Thanks man... Totally gonna do that.

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