Hi everyone, it's me vaybebaybe, and I do a lot of travelling from time to time in which I see a lot of fit girls. But because of the situation that Im in (whether it'd be in a bus or a train) I don't know any decent openers to start a conversation, and I just want to be able to, if not hit on them, but just build my confidence in general.

If anyone has got any got any openers, then I would be very thankful.

Many Thanks

Vay

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Ok, I can be of help since I'm in the same situation you're in. And by that I mean by travelling a lot.

Put yourself in this situation. Picture you're late on catching a bus or subway somewhere, and you desperately need to ask for directions. You just don't know where to go. HAVE THIS MENTALITY. Just approach a girl for directions and tell her why you needed it (This is the opener. It is not canned and you can easily go from there saying how you're travelling and shit). It's not hard when YOU know there's no pressure on yourself. It's all in the mind. See how with this kind of mentality, you see approaching girls as easy? Of course you are applying the 3 second rule here (subconsciously) as well.

You can pretty much use any type of situational opener, and this way her defense is down and you aren't in much pressure of anything. Fail or not, it doesn't matter. NO GIRL will reject you of time or a question you ask if you have good body language and don't show intentions of just wanting to get her # or fuck her.

It can go something like this.

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At a subway

"Excuse me, I'm new in town and to be honest, I'm lost. Do you know how to get to xyz"

:shereplies:

"Ah, I see.. It's really troublesome on me because my friend wants me to meet up so she can show me around town"

:shereplies/expresses:

And then you can end with..
"Well before I go, I would be kicking myself in the butt all day if I didn't ask your name"

:shegivesname:

"Well (insert name), if you want, maybe we can meet up some time and just talk and get to know each other" *smile*

:shesaysyesorno:

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There's that or you can go with a little more charm

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At a subway

"Excuse me, I'm new in town and to be honest, I'm lost. Do you know how to get to xyz"

:shereplies:

"Thanks, I thought I had to go this way *point*.. welll... actually.. the real reason I asked you for directions was because you looked like a person I should get to know. And I would be kicking myself in the butt all day if I didn't come say hi and get to know more about you"

:shesmiles:

And then you # close.


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See how it's not that hard? Just do it to every fucking girl you see. I guarentee it might be hard to build up that confidence but it's only hard the first 3 times. Besides, you travel a lot, whens the next time you'll see her anyways? If you're still too scared to do this, do it when you know you have to be on a flight the next day. Get this mentality in your head and try it.

Yer thanks a lot Shinigaml, I tried sarging a 6.5 on the train and she was like 22 or 23 and considering the fact that I'am just seventeen it went pretty well, for example because I play tennis and go to a tennis academy, so I said,

"Hi, does this train go to so and so, because I've literally just come back from a tennis tournament from abroad and I'am still not familiar travelling on the trains yet"

And then I kept her guessing because I didn't say which country I had played in, and in fact I didn't play a tournament abroad at all. I was just saying that so she finds me interesting in the sense that she thinks I am good at playing tennis.

So yer the convo continued for like ten to fifteen minutes of jus general talking and ironically for me, she had to get off at the same station as I did, and as I was talking to her throughout the train journey in which I found out that she had been going out with her boyfriend for a week.

Strangely, when I got off the platform we immediately starting walking together just outside the train station and there I was just standing there in rain with her really close to me.

So I thought I might as well try and look for some IOI's in which I did. An example of the IOI I tried to look for was when I would take a couple of steps away from her and then she would just follow, I've gotta say that was one massive IOI in my opinion and then when it fell silent for a couple of minutes she would try and re-initiate the conversation which was another massive IOI, but because she was to old for me that's why I didn't bother number closing although I wanted to.

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