Hey,

I'd really appreciate some help with this.

I went out with a group of friends to a club and I got really close to this one girl who I've sort of known for a while but I always assumed she was out of my range. Anyway she seemed really interested in me and she was really doing kino like crazy. We were dancing together and at times we were very close. I tried to kiss her on 3 seperate occasions but she turned her head so I could only kiss her cheek each time. I waited until we held eye contact, and I could comfortably move close to her until our faces were touching, it was all going great with no LMR, until I went for the kiss.

Each time I tried turning my attention to the other girls in the group, and I made sure I was having a good time without her. But it didn't help.

At the end of the evening she asked for my number and told me to text her when I got home. we've texted a couple of times and she still seems really interested.

I can't work this out, is she interested or not? Is it just she just likes to get to know a guy first before she kisses him? Or maybe she just really wants to be friends...but then why be so flirtacious?!

I was going to suggest hanging out and getting a coffee or something together and take it from there.

Any help would be really appreciated.

Thanks

oh one thing I should probably mention is that we're on the same course at university but i'm in the year above so i think there's a good chance she just wants to use me to help her with work and stuff.

In fact the more i think about it the more it seems that she is just trying to use me.

Maybe i'll suggest meeting up like i said, and try gaming her from there. If that doesn't work then I can be pretty sure she is just using me.

Thanks guys!