I was invited to a house party this friday by a HB, she said to bring a friend with me and that the party will last till 1ish or somewhat so i said yes and agreed to bring a friend with me.

Although, theres one problem now, no friends will come with me, there either busy, no money or have to be home at a certain time or somewhat(Please bare in mind im only 16, same as my friends, and yes its legal in UK ). Im wondering if me saying i can't come because i cant get a friend to come with me is a DLV? Id say id come on my own but it is quite a distance away from mine and it may look kind of needy going all that way on my own.

feedback please...

Why would u not want to go to the party? I'd say definitely go alone if you can't find a friend and if anything u can ask some random girl to come with u: "hey there is an awesome party on Friday, want to join me?"... How can you not find at least a classmate that wants to come? Anyway good luck I'd say definitely go, don't be a flake

woah, only 2 things can happen when going to parties and who comes with;

either a good friend whos cool, (i wont say alpha) but non-needy, someone who can go around the party making friends but wont ditch you but wont get in your space.

or (usually the best)

by yourself, that way, you wont be tempted to stay with your normal friends and have to go around, just make friends with everyone early on, then move onto getting a girl (s?)

yeah but trust me nearly every party or night out ive gone out to, with someone who isnt sociable and really cool.

brings you down man, they follow, join in conversations, try to break off your conversations so its just you 2 talking.

ITS ANNOYING, I URGE YOU DO NOT SUFFER WHAT I HAVE SUFFERED!!!!

its so bad, a girl will be interested in you, he'll come along (fair enough) but he just wont be sociable he'll try to couple you off with him.

bearing in mind, these people arent usually true friends but i have 2 types of friends; those i party with and those i have quieter, talk with (from my chump days before i wanted to be more extrovert).

im saying all this so you don't fuck up man, i dont wish it upon anyone to have a leecher. go alone.

unless you can find a cool guy who wont fuck you over.

peace and love guys

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yeah, i can see where your coming from
I dont mind bringing a friend anyway because the ones i usually choose are the ones that know what there doing

i just wondered if me saying im not bringing a friend/cant bring one is a DLV to them?

No, this is not a problem. Just make sure you're not telling them something along the lines of "Ahh, all my friends are bailing on me *:(*, they're all such losers", "I couldn't find any friends that wanted to go with me, blahblah". Best thing to do, don't touch the subject, or keep it as short as possible and game over it. And, even though you're not, be comfortable coming to her party alone and, besides seducing (You're 16, doesn't have to lead to sex, but sexual tension's always good) her, show her you've got good socialising skills by making new friends.


Now, side-note, your friends, busy / no money / curfew / bladibla, it might not be a bad idea to make some serious friends at that party. You know that those guys go to parties, there could be some potential high value friends over there. (Other then gaming for love-interests, gaming for friends isn't a bad idea, especially at age 16.)

Keep it up.
-ZeroValley

wow, thanks a lot man, never thought of it that way!
thing is though, the house party will be full of people from that area, and i will be the only one that come from elsewhere, so wont turning up on my own make me look a little needy as well as lower my value?

nah man, dont get too caught up on the whole DLV and DHV thing; i spent so long not getting anywhere and worrying because all that stuff.

if people wonder why you came alone you can just reply the simplest; i came to meet people not bring people (not said funny just as a matter of fact)

if they try and ask you, to put you in your place or DLV you, just IGNORE thema dn carry on speaking on an unrelated subject. people'll see its not even in your reality.

or even just cold read them "you come across as rude but i think youre just feisty and have a lot to say"

but all in all; if you dont see it as a problem and youre having fun with everyone, talkative, flirty, laughing with the guys, no one WILL EVEN NOTICE. theyll be like "who is this guy? hes crazy" in a good way

just treat it like everyone is youre BEST FRIEND who youre used to busting balls on and joking around with. If you spend the night being quiet and not really adding value then they might question who you're here with, if youre the stifler of the party then people will be getting your number, guys and girls to hang out.

but you'll probably be only asked "how do you know [person's house party]"

i ramble on a lot but i hope i covered the points, tell me if theres anything else you need said. i got some good AMOG stuff ive use in college all the time. more directions than lines.

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covered literally everything, thanks a lot man!