Met a HB9, she's ok, friendly, but most of time only gets in touch to ask me favours..

the thing is: she just arrived in town, while i'm here for a month. so its OK to ask me a few things. but still, i have the impression she uses me to do stuff for her.


So, last message i just rejected her.

"Hey, can you search on internet blabla for me, cause i'm the first days without internet"

Me: "No sorry i'm busy. Tonight we are going to the blabla party !! Ciao! "

Her: "Of course we are going! the blabla party, right?"

Hope i did good.

My question is: should i always refuse her favours also in the future? How do you find the balance between being the nice guy and being the 'player' that refuses to help, its kinda rude also.

thanks!