I must have the worst luck ever, or can't look in the right places. I've had many people tell me that there are many hot single ladies. Oh really? It seems that every time I develop rapport with a hot girl, she's taken. And since not all of them tell me (I often find out through a friend or when I look them up on facebook), it's not like they're just saying it to get me to leave. It's a genuine fact.

So I'm obviously either cursed or looking in the wrong places (bars?). Guys who are in relationships, tell me this. Where did you meet your girl?

Also, I'm curious about the fact that some of them neglected to mention having a boyfriend. Obviously that's an IOI, and one of them even gave me her number too without me having to ask for it. Sweet. But does that mean I've built up enough attraction that they consider me as someone they might ditch their boyfriends for? Simply put, would it be futile to try to ask these girls out and use a boyfriend destroyer routine? Enlighten me.

Thats exactly whats happening to me, apart from theyve never told me they have boyfriends, i just find out from when they add me on facebook or i add them...

or some shit like that... maybe its my bad luck but ive struck out 6 times on this cause now, all the rest ive got to know dont appeal to me

If you have ANY game, even the married ladies are 'single'. . . or at least that is what they will tell you.

So I guess that's a yes to gaming a chick with a BF.

But what about my first question? Anyone in a relationship wanna tell me where you met your girl?

Through a friend, and no, it was NOT at a party, club bar.