Hi,

Too make a long story short,

There was this girl which I liked alot, and she felt the same way about me, atleast she said. We went out a couple of times and kissed etc etc. I even had some dinner with the family a couple of times:P. But well before it came to a relationship, it was Christmas and both me and her went on a holiday, and that's where she kinda started to lose interest or something. We started to talk less and at the end we lost contact completely. Now about 9 months later we started to get a bit of contact again, but it's more like a "normal" friend thing as you know what I mean, she isn't really attracted or in love or w/e with me anymore. Still I really want to give it a shot, but I absolutely don't have an idea how to.

At that moment it seemed that the reason it didn't work out was because I was to shy and she was as well, and we didn't say that much to eachother.

What Strategies should I use to have this thing worked out?
Any Idea's. Since I know her for quite some time now, her number,e-mail, address etc. aren't the problem.

Tips Please? I'm new to this and still a bit shy btw, so some help about what stickies to read would be appreciated

Hey man,

Im guessing you understood your first mistake, you simply waited for too long..
and you know you should believe that if a girl liked you once then why not twice?

it was just a mistake of letting it slip away because you waited too long to have a relationship or to take things further.

If I were you,

Id simply try to hang out with her more like before and show a bit more of interest. Just like you would do with a new girl, tease her and get closer. But show her you ve changed a bit, that you re not scared of taking risks and show that you want her. (Maybe she thinks you re not interested anymore) and Here you have an advantage of knowing her, so you should know what she likes and what she doesnt. use it to your advantage so make her smile, let her feel again what she liked when she was around you before..

keep goin man!