What do you say when a girl you've been dating for like a week says that you cannot kiss until you're boyfriend and girlfriend?

'well we cant be boyfriend and girlfriend until we kiss', but in a cocky way, depending on her reaction u may be able to kiss her.

How old is she?
Did she say it in a playful matter?

I also say things to girls - if you wanna touch you have to pay. I think you need permission of my mom to date me and more & more

Anyway, it does not matter much what the girl says. It matters what body signs she gives you (lean in, kino, doggie bowl look, qualifies herself, complies with your requests, etc..)

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19 Asian and only dates Asian men (which I am).

I thought she was just kidding, but she was serious about it. She's a very beautiful girl--first Asian girl I've ever liked in my life--but she made a lot of weird rules like this one. The next night she kissed me on my cheek near my lips then said don't try anything, we can't kiss more than on the cheek.

We're not dating anymore, but I just want to see what you guys would have said to that.

Lol I'd say; "That's bullshit, goodbye".

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I'm going to assume she is a virgin which would explain that rule

Asians have smelly pussys anyway, so ditch her, she's obviously a fucking control freak

Sounds like she's into you.

It might be part of tradition in her family / neighborhood. It might be part of her values.

The last time girl told me something in this matter we ended up having sex. Many times when girl says something with a NO it is her way to tell you she wants you to do something and lead her into that.

"I am not going to sleep with you" -> Means, sex is on her mind. She's most likely to sleep. It's a sign for you to escalate.

"Don't try to kiss me"- Pleaaaaase try to kiss me and be an ALPHA! Don't listen to my buillshit. I have to say it so that I dont end up going my own values but if things just happen, it might be out of my control. Escalate!


It's hard to know whether it was the situation with your girl because I have not seen all her IOI's and her sub-communication.

I personally always follow this rule unless a girl tells me it with a hars dis-interest.

It's a good belief system that will lead you towards the results you actually want in life. The worse thing that can happen is that she does not comply with your escalation attempts. Which would leave you almost at same point you are her for not trying.

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That's good advice sman. Thanks.

It doesn't really matter anymore with her. Things went downhill after that and some other things. I know she really did like me, but I had never faced obstacles like the ones she put up. In the end I got really frustrated with her and she became distant and LJBF'd me, which I was ultimately fine with, but she acted awkward when we hung out with friends (we're in the same social circle).

So I've cut her out of my life and don't want to see her or talk to her because honestly thinking about her puts me in negative mood, and I need a lot of positive energy in my life for school and work.

The biggest thing I've learned from dating and relationships in my life thus far is that time fixes everything. It's natural for humans to remember the good moments, which explains why girls end up going back to abusive/horrible boyfriends and why guys end up going back to bitches. In our last conversation we had (when she LJBF'd me) she said we should get to know each other as friends and maybe we'll get together in the future when there aren't external obstacles like school. I told her fine, but I'm not waiting for her. Our mutual friend told me that she took that in a very negative way, like I can just go get another girl and forget about her. Well, basically that is exactly what I do.

Anyway, I'm not completely discounting her. Maybe in the summer or sometime in the future we can reconnect and we can restart fresh, but I'm not banking on it.

Right call. Take her out of your life completely. Each time you find yourself thinking of her then start thinking of pink elephant.

The less you think of her the less intense your emotions will become. After short period of time you will not feel anything towards for her.

Finding another girl/s is the right thing to do.

good luck!
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