I've being studying the art of pickup for a while and i have what i feel alot of things tied down however this weekend i've made some rookie mistakes. A couple of months ago i met a girl called Lisa and she's certainly a 9 in several different areas.

On friday i was in my local pub where she works, she wasnt working. I was cooking and had several girls around me wanting to talk to me, i kept my cool and i saw Lisa walk in, it didnt fuss me in the slighest i kept on talking to everyone in the close facinity of me. Then i went to go to the gents and she was in my path to the toilet so i spoke to her, she gave me several IOI's she touched me and told me she meant to send me a message today on facebook cus she wasnt working but was out, i responded with first rookie mistake i didnt know you were out, she said well im going blackpool tomm but im working on sunday. So where do you live, i responded with i live around here and she said so why havent you come see me then and this was my biggest mistake i spoke in such a way that give her higher value than me, i made excuses for not going to the pub. Not long after she told me she was going to find her sister. she left and needless to say for the first time in 2 years i've been kicking myself over being basically a loser with a girl, i've not been a loser since i realised what pick up is. Anyway she touched me before she left and said again she was working on sunday. I was like ok, today me and some of my friends went to watch the footie in another place in my city and i made the stupidist mistake i've made in 3 years, i told a friend who has lesser social value than me that i liked her. We went to the pub today and he told her and i just felt like for the first time in a few years i was out of control. It sucked and for an hour or so i was really annoyed but i didnt do what i did 3 or 4 years ago and walk out of the pub i stayed and i give her my number and i told her look i dont know what his agenda is but here is my number, my 4th mistake. Basically i think i found my 1itis. I've acted really cool and have responded very well to these obstacles but i know i wouldnt have made these mistakes if i was thinkng rationally. I like this girl alot and im really honest with her but im left with thinking im now waiting for a text or call, i'm not use to being in this situation.

I've been able to pick out these mistakes because i've been improving myself in the last couple of years. I only posted this cause like alot of the experienced PUAs say stay in control of the situation. Im in a situation now where im not sure if im going to achieve my goal with her. Dont make the same mistakes i made!!!!