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Hey guys,
I got the number of a girl I k-closed at a club on Saturday but I was so drunk I don't even remember her name or anything we talked about. Just that I was extremely alpha and led her through the entire interaction.
So I messaged her with a gimmick getting her to respond and it worked and we've exchanged maybe 4-5 texts. Long story short I still don't know her name lol
Reason I made this thread is she just txt me "So tell me a little more about yourself? x". So either she's genuinely curious or she's trying to get me to qualify myself. I don't really know how to handle it but my initial reaction was to say "Let's play a game, it's called the 5 question game..." and start first.
Is this a good way to reverse the her frame and try to take control of it? Is there a way I can DHV (by telling her about myself) but not act as if I'm qualifying myself? I'd like to add that I'm not that attached to the outcome, infact I want to try and take it pretty sexual fast just as an experiment so maybe I could use the game as an excuse?
Cheers,
Kensei
Well about her asking about you, it all depends what kind of girl she was at the club. It could be a test or it could be genuine. Only you will know the answer to that but you were probably too drunk to remember. Rather than switching the topic completely which shows an insecurity about... well.. you. You should have said something like, "I'm an interesting guy but first, what's your story?"
See how this way, you don't look insecure, you also change the frame, and ultimately you are back in control. And this way you can talk about yourself after she does without looking like you are trying to impress, because she basically asked you for it. Don't give too much though.
Hope this helped
CHAT