so I see this short hot girl standing with her friend watching
people dance. I start up convo and it's going well. she's a good dancer and has a hot body.
but after a while I don't feel like dancing anymore, so I suggest we go find a bench to sit on. so we did, and we talked for a bit, then her friend I'll call DBag shows up. so he's talking to her for a bit,
and at first he seems like a cool guy...I'm getting good feedback from the girl, she's interested in me, and she gives me her number...and after a while the bar closes and we all decide to go to Denny's. all the while I'm trying to think how I could have played my cards right to have her come home with me instead. while it seems like she's interested in me, it didn't look like I'd be bringing her home. so we get to the restaurant and sit down...this is where things get confusing. She seems to be paying more attention to her friend across the table instead of me, even though I'm sitting right next to her. and everyone was getting each others' facebooks and adding each other on her phone, and I saw something on this guy's profile about "getting what he wants when he wants it" so I think oh shit here we go. (he had already given me confusing feedback earlier possibly indicated competing interest in this girl). soon he keeps pretending he can't remember my name. I took offense to this and thought maybe he was trying to devalue me in front of her somehow. But wasn't sure how to deal with it.
and then when we get outside, she's going on and on about his damn car. So I figured she was
playing some kind of jealousy game, with all the talking to him more than me and ogling over his
car. But I didn't know how to handle it. so anyways, after I leave, I text her to let her know
I think she's cool and wanna get to know her better, but that whether she meant to or not, it looked
like she was trying to play jealousy games and that I wouldn't put up with it.
That was early this morning, so wondering what she will say when she replies.

But today I look at DBag's facebook and turns out he's gay...so wtf..lol...ok guys, input and constructive criticism welcome!

if woman talk to other guys you talk to other girls let her know your not needy just dont make it look like your making her jelous. i had a girl like that at my last job which there was no girls so it was tuff watching her flirt with other guys so i would just be on my phone texting call up chicks and ask if i was ganna get sum tonight when she would be close and would see her get mad she was hard to get though took me from 12pm-7am till i finally gave up then she jumps on top of me with that fat ass saying she's ready

You jumped into her frame ages ago, whatever you did from that point it was going downhill.
If you arent leading the interaction, taking people somewhere cool, talking about cool stuff, then you are better off, in that circumstance leaving.
And sending her a text like that comes accross as really really needy. If she was trying to make u bothered , then you clarifying that you are in fact bothered just makes her less attracted to you.
When the guy walks up.
Hey, you look like a cool guy, 10 coolest things about you, go!"

Make him validate his reason for being there. If hes trouncing you in set then get the fuck out of there.