Yes, new here, what's up all? Anyways...

Just recently met and went on a date with a new girl. Little back-story, I met her through a friend one night a couple weeks ago or something, she was attractive so I gamed her a bit and got her number at the end of the night. I wait four days to contact this particular girl and set up a date with her for Saturday. Date goes well, the only thing that I do wrong/didn't do was not pull the trigger on a kiss when I had such a great chance to (heavy and sexual kino and us two alone at her place). I've been beating myself up over this because that shit doesn't happen to me, but that's another story. Well, I didn't contact her for another three days after the date, then texted her back and forth with some humor a few times before asking her out again. She asks me if Sunday night is good for me, so I tell her I gotta check and see if I'm busy Sunday or not. The next day (yesterday), I get back to her in the early evening saying that Sunday's good and I'll pick her up this time, so I'll get back to her in the next few days telling her what time I can pick her up. Here's where my question is... She never responded to my text confirming this date, so should I expect a flake when I do get back to her or am I just getting ahead of myself before anything bad has happened? Because honestly, I rather just write a girl off and go onto others if she's going to be flakey.

Relax and don't make assumptions, she might be flaking you, she might be busy, her phone bill might be unpaid.

Be open to all outcomes and attached to none, don't write her off in an effort to protect yourself against disappointment, and don't have any expectations. Oh, and if you want to kiss someone in the future, do it.

Gonna update this.

She didn't flake. I picked her up at her house, also met her parents, who seemed cool. Took her to play mini-golf, and on the way to the place I realized I only had 4 dollars in my wallet (made jokes about this) because I had forgot to restock the cash earlier. So she had to pay and I told her I'd "make it up to her." It went well, focused on having fun there, which we did (don't feel like explaining every little detail of my game here).

Went back to my place, walked around the neighborhood and holy sh*t I must've hit a nerve when I asked her about dogs because she explained in detail to me about all six dogs she's had in the past. Go into my house to watch a movie, I have a drink but she didn't like Bailey's Irish Cream Alcohol (wtf?). We watch some sh*t horror movie, which was perfect because we could make jokes about it. I get some kino going, slowly escalating to where I was last week. Movie ends, she gets up to use the bathroom, comes back and sits down with my arm around her. I tell her to "look at me" and I just f*cking went for the kiss and did it. Going to be honest and say that it wasn't any Hollywood "perfect kiss." It was quick, a bit awkward, and I felt like she was kissing fast. Whatever, she didn't reject it.

We watch some T.V. and at some point I change the channel from what she wanted to watch. She wants the controller, I don't give it to her. A little wrestling match ensues and she lunges over me on the couch to try and get the controller. At some point I say she's being a bad girl and slap her ass. Little more T.V. then it's time to take her home. I open her door to the car, but I stand in the way so she can't get in and say "so, you think you won in mini-golf, huh?" She says yeah or some sh*t, then I tell her no way (all while movie in closer to her) and kiss her again. This kiss felt so much smoother and better. It was slower and just... Better. Took her home and told her I'd see her again "sometime." End.

Good follow up. Not sure if you were joking, but I have to agree that Bailey's is gross

Well it's 17% alcohol, so it's got a strong initial taste, but the aftertaste rocks in my opinion.

Anyways, I realized something recently about this girl. She hasn't initiated anything, I've done EVERYTHING. I'm the one who contacts her first to set something up, I was the one who initiated the make-outs Sunday night, and it looks like I'm going to be the one to try and set up the next date. Is this normal at this point with some girls, or is she playing games? Usually if one person is initiating everything it screams that the other person has low interest, but I could give more than a few reasons why this girl doesn't (seem to have at least) have low interest. Any thoughts on this?