My game was really working for me & I felt in control & like I was attracting girls off my natural sense of humor & sarcasm.. But I had a real bad night at this club & ever since I felt like I'm not in control anymore... & nothing seems to be natural... I ain't gettin any & this sucks smh.. I also am jobless n don't have a place of my own right now so I'm stuck.. Idk.

Alright, get her head out your ass mate.

You know the expression the bigger they are the harder they fall? This was it for you.

Your confidence grew and grew, but ONE night can ruin it. Happens to the best of us.


The best way to get back in there is to ease back into it. So if what you were doing before worked well then use it, and improve on it. Let your confidence build back up. Moping to a forum isnt gonna help mate.

this happins to me all the time also i feel like sometimes am on top of the world then some nights i can go out and no sets open at all and am like damn theres nights you win and theres nights you lose the best thing you can do is get right back in there and just keep going

We all got bad times in our life and you'll just have to deal with them. Feeling down effects your game, game gets worse and leads to feeling even worse. It's a vicious circle. Try to not let stupid things get you down, getting rejected rocks and you should laugh about it. Try to see failure as a new opportunity to do better in the future.
You should start seeing the positive side of life again, do fun things, listen to your favourite music etc. Create a positive vibe and it'll come back to you I'm sure.

Now that's $5 for private amature psychology consultancy But seriously, don't let bad things get to you, how hard it may sound.

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