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I have moved back to where I go to school. During the first week I have gone out 4 nights, went out again with my friends last night. Not only have I been going to bars but I have also been trying to talk to girls every chance I get at school. I'm not exactly stopping them in the middle of the halls but I say hi to girls that pass me by on my walks to class. In class I also sit down beside random girls and try to chat them up. I am a really shy person so my social skills are below par.
I haven't really tried to use any particular lines just yet because I feel I am not at that level yet, socially, where I can use them effectively.
My question to y'all is when did you start to see a major improvement? Each night I get a little bit better, more ballsy. My goal right now is just to be able to initiate and maintain interesting conversation with a girl. I have been going out to bars alone as well, first few attempts weren't very encouraging lol, I pussied out the first night and went home at like 11:30.
What would you recommend I do, in addition to my current routine, to increase my learning curve?
I'm assuming you're a college student.
Well to increase your learning curve, join clubs in your school and play a leadership role. Be the dominant male. If you play the leadership role, people naturally tend to follow leaders. Hence, you will have more social interactions in your life.
Honestly, you are at the time when people do stupid sh!t and don't care much about life. Just have fun and be fun, dominant, carefree and show leadership.