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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 10:04 pm 
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How do u deal with those confusing girls, the very friendly outgoing girls?

these are the girls I most attracted to but they send mixed signals, you dont know if they are really interested or they are just being their friendly self

this happened to me today with an HB8 who I made conversation with


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Just kino escalate and by the time things get sexual they'll either be comfortable with it or LJBF you. Then you'll know ;-)

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Hey Blondguy,I dont think Zacharie is looking for such techniques yet.

Hey Zacharie,Im usually fed up and intimidated by those types,but I'ev always had major success with them(since in the game).

This' how you deal wit them:

1)Be buy(or pretend to be).If you're texting her everyday;do it every 2 days[any longer,she'll lose interest since she's always meeting ppl].

2)Get directly to the point.

3)Dont try tying them down as far as telling them to come to your place.Best bet is to propose a meet at a social spot(since they're socialites),then work on taking them to your place.

I hate these types because they're fuccing flakey.

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Hey Blondguy,I dont think Zacharie is looking for such techniques yet.

Hey Zacharie,Im usually fed up and intimidated by those types,but I'ev always had major success with them(since in the game).

This' how you deal wit them:

1)Be buy(or pretend to be).If you're texting her everyday;do it every 2 days[any longer,she'll lose interest since she's always meeting ppl].

2)Get directly to the point.

3)Dont try tying them down as far as telling them to come to your place.Best bet is to propose a meet at a social spot(since they're socialites),then work on taking them to your place.

I hate these types because they're fuccing flakey.

be buy means?
are u saying to not be needy and stuff?

what im really looking for is what to do since their friendly personality kinda sends u mixed signals?

you dont know if they are really into you or are they just being friendly
the reasons im wondering all of this is because those are the type of girls im more attracted to


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Just kino escalate and by the time things get sexual they'll either be comfortable with it or LJBF you. Then you'll know ;-)
im really looking for how to deal with the mixed signals?
since they are so friendly u dont know if they are really interested or are they just being friendly

I hope it make sense


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I also find this type of woman VERY attractive compared to others. Maybe its the challenge I don't know.

Anyway.. this type is usually pretty independent and elusive. They are usually very busy and aren't the type to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call.

I think this is the hardest type to get... because they require a man who can handle them and not turn into a puppy dog. I've had the most success by being really relaxed and indifferent. Most guys fall hard and fast for these types so you'll stand out if you aren't instantely won over or phased by her "charm". She is used to being able to manipulate the majority of men she meets. She does this by being unpredictable and flakey.

So keep your cool, be direct, fearless and strong. Think Tony Soprano.

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Sorry for the typo.

I meant to be "busy",or appear to be.

In essence,you're becoming a challenge just like they are.

You should be sending mixed signals.

Do what she does to you and I bet it'd drive her crazy wondering.

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I also find this type of woman VERY attractive compared to others. Maybe its the challenge I don't know.

Anyway.. this type is usually pretty independent and elusive. They are usually very busy and aren't the type to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call.

I think this is the hardest type to get... because they require a man who can handle them and not turn into a puppy dog. I've had the most success by being really relaxed and indifferent. Most guys fall hard and fast for these types so you'll stand out if you aren't instantely won over or phased by her "charm". She is used to being able to manipulate the majority of men she meets. She does this by being unpredictable and flakey.

So keep your cool, be direct, fearless and strong. Think Tony Soprano.
should u neg these type of girls?


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My point is that you shouldn't have to WAIT for IOIs in order to have the confidence to proceed with "gaming."

You should always kino escalate with EVERY hot girl, because doing so will build a connection with them in general. Remember, there's a hell of a long way up the ladder which can simply be considered "friendly" before things get sexual. If you don't end up getting sexual, then you can still LJBF her, and in general having hot female friends who see you as an attractive, confident guy who knows how to physically escalate in a non-creepy way is a good thing.

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Good advice Blondguy;but for the brave-hearts.

I peronally never wait for IOI's.

I dont even know what an IOI looks like(lo)l;just kidding.

But too many guys re hung up on waiting for IOI's.

If you never get them nor see them,you may end up going home empty handed nightly saying,"only if I'd escalate".

And really & truely guys,I'd never seen a girl give solid IOI's before in field.

They're mostly subtle.

You'd wait all night and never spot them.

The only obvious IOI you'd get is the girl laughing,being giggly and may tap you as when you'd said something funny.

Besides that,all other IOI's are subtle,so dont wait for them.

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I also find this type of woman VERY attractive compared to others. Maybe its the challenge I don't know.

Anyway.. this type is usually pretty independent and elusive. They are usually very busy and aren't the type to sit by the phone waiting for a guy to call.

I think this is the hardest type to get... because they require a man who can handle them and not turn into a puppy dog. I've had the most success by being really relaxed and indifferent. Most guys fall hard and fast for these types so you'll stand out if you aren't instantely won over or phased by her "charm". She is used to being able to manipulate the majority of men she meets. She does this by being unpredictable and flakey.

So keep your cool, be direct, fearless and strong. Think Tony Soprano.
should u neg these type of girls?
Yes. Without a doubt.

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