a while back my female friend introduced me to her friend (hb7). coming off a glorious sucess with an (hb6) i gamed her.

At an engineering event we made out in front of an entire bar. and had the whole bar jealous. she was melting in my arms and everything was awesome. The next morning we all met up for breakfast made the mistake of not getting her number. I did some facebook game and eventually got a number. Everything was flirty but I couldn't get a day two.

I met her again at my female friend's birthday party two weeks later. I got way too drunk and my wingman latter told me I was an ass. At the bus stop it was just me and her and we made out again.

Warning bells went off in my head when she gave me a day to meet up with her but then when I gave her a time she dint respond for like a half hour and then I noticed that she had put a new event up on facebook, which I was not invited to. She apologized for being "difficult". I neged her. cuz she was going home and I was going to cali I dint talk to her for 3 weeks.

I got back yesterday and today I called my wingman and he had been to a party with the above. I came up in conversation and hb7 said she needed a way to blow me off. later when my buddy asked why she said I was a bad kisser. she also madeout with another one of my buddies I haven't seen in a while.

Now my question is whats going on here? I've never come across anything like this in the literature.
Is this backwards rationalization? If I'm a bad kisser (which i don't really believe) is there some literature i can read?
It could also be that she thought I wanted her as my gf which I don't.

what should be my next move? I'm thinking I'll just cut her lose cuz I don't care much but I do want to know what happened.

Last note I have been watching my drinking so don't worry about that .

start gaming other girls.

If she sees you at a social event with other women interested in you, the spark will be there again. Ignore her, until she approaches you, and do not follow her around from club to club. The rule is, she sees you, you dont see her.

If you never see her again, you will have the new girls anyways. Unless you are in a LTR, you must HOLD ON LIGHTLY to any interaction with a girl. This is the best way to achieve abundance, if you dont give a fuck.

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Take your Ops.

I plan to game other girls. The deal with her is that I don't see her often (I run in multiple social circles and this one is a peripheral one). I don't think its LMR cuz we never really got far enough for that.

I will game other girls in front of her next time.

Thanks for the advice.