I met this HB10 through some friends and on Saturday at the bar, she was all over me. My friends noticed and agreed that she was really into me. However, I barely spoke to her at all when we first met up, and when we got to the club, she was all over me. Very touchy and very focused on me.

Problem at the time was I had been drinking by the pool all day and was pretty drunk, and definitely tired. If I hadn't been so drunk/tired, I could have Kiss-closed for sure and maybe, though a long shot at that point, F-Closed.

Being that I was in such a state, I left early and got a ride home as it was my only opportunity to get a sober ride home. Being drunk and stupid, I neglected to get her number. Well, we are friends on facebook and that is my only form of communication directly to her.

What kind of message, if any, should I send her that won't seem AFC?

be patient, let her message you. She will. and it will say something like, heyyyy you my friends and i arrre goinnggg to the clllubbb tomorrrowwww nighttt do youuuu wantttt to come.

and after you have an aneurism you can say maybe, which club are you guys headed out to?

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what if she doesn't contact me first?

when do i contact her first?

what do i say when i do?

I have never been in this situation so I need some insight.

I dont want to seem desperate or too interested either. I need to play this right because this would be the hottest girl i have ever fucked if i could close the deal.

It is ok to contact her, but you have to be careful not to sound needy, i would probably go for something natural like "hey!! I'm so sorry for knocking your phone out your hand last night was so drunk!! Did you have a good night?xx"

She will reply sorry you have the wrong person or something, so say "you was at (a bar you know she wasnt at) last night yeah?x :/"

When she Replies No say "oh wow how embarrassing I must have been so drunk I thought that lady was you :/ sorry lol" add something like ps to sutterly transition the conversation, into her talking about herself, anyway how was your night? is a example of this..

That will be £29.99, where should i send the bill ?

Enjoy

I'm pretty good at facebook game. How long ago did u two become facebook friends? Tell me how that transpired. I hope u have been ransacking her page and finding out everything u can about her. This is how I'd do it...

Find something on her page that u can relate to and can be some sort of event. Let a week to 2 weeks go by and then make your move. Look, this is an HB 10. This is gonna require a style that you've never done before. Shit, I wish I could get 10's!! Damn. The first thing she's gonna try to pigeon-hole u into is seeing if u are needy and worship her right from the start.

Message her and perhaps say something to her that was situational from the night at the club. Preferably funny. The whole post, u should be giving off the tone that u just happened to have stumbled on her name and picture when u were reading one of her comments under one of your mutual friend's posts. Give her the notion that u haven't thought about her at all (just don't make it seem u haven't thought about her because u were really drunk). That would be a turn-off.

Next, decide on what you're gonna use from her profile as your clutch play. Make it seem like u haven't even checked her page out and you're randomly inviting her to this "thing" that you're gonna pretend u like too. She'll be stupid enough to fall for it and say something like OMG! You like that too?"

You can smile to yourself and silently answer in your head, "yes I do!" lol. Hopefully she accepts the invitation. Good luck. Lemme know if u want me to critique your message before u send it...

we just became FB friends on Monday, as in 2 days ago.

I dont want to message her too early but i need her number!

Do this on facebook. Remember, the key to getting her to almost ALWAYS get her to call back or reply is to get her curiosity up.

If you say something like "Hey you remember me at the bar? We were drinking at xyz and so and such and blah blah blah"

^That comes off too boring and unoriginal.

Rather than that, on her FB, say something like "Oh my god you wouldn't believe what happened after you left... I was on my way to xyz and he-".... STOP right there. Just cut off the message, DONE. I guarentee this will get that girl curious as fuck. As humans we are programed to solve our curiosity. We want to know why that one girl is not interested in you. Or why that HB10 girl is so upset in the corner. Curiosity will FORCE HERSELF to message you back.

I did this after a first date to this girl and she sent 6 text msgs and 8 missed calls the next day wanting to know what happened. She'll be thinking about what you were going to say, hence you will be in her mind thinking about you.

Just make sure to at least give it a day before actually messaging her back. Let her think about what you said and she'll be begging to know. You don't have to use exactly what I said but along the same lines. These work best if you just met a girl and got her # or her FB. To prevent the chance of rejection on day 2, this is very effective.

Here are some other sh!t you can use.

"Ok the funniest sh!t happened today. After you left that guy with the beard (assuming you and her know who that bearded person is...) fucking s" STOP right there. Even here you're thinking to yourself, what did he do? Fucking sh!t his pants? Fucking slapped a b1tch? Fucking smashed his head through a window?

^ See what I mean here? Just get her thinking about you. There is nothing wrong with you sending the first message, it's just HOW you send the message which makes it a good or bad decision at the end of the day.

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On a side note, on day 1 when you appraoch women. Right before you know the days going to be over, say something like this.

"Do you know there are two habits I hate in women? Number one is most women don’t say what they mean and don’t mean what they say."

And then go silent.

She would say…So what’s number two?

"Well…I don’t think you are ready to hear it…I’ll tell you when you will be ready. And change the subject."

Or you can say...

"I noticed something interesting yet strange about you. You know what?"

Her- What?

"Well I’ll tell you later…This isn’t the right time yet"

REMEMBER, Women want instant gratification and the fact that you are making them wait for it will not only build up excitement but also massive curiosity and anticipation to know the thing you had to tell them. Use this to your advantage.

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This doesn't apply to your situation right now but SINCE it is an HB10, assuming you'll get her # soon. Play hard to get. This girl gets so much attention from guys you won't probably be able to understand how her brain is hardwired when a guy approaches her. TO make you seem to her that you are a busy and wanted man, do this simple trick.

Text her this.

“It was so much fun…So we are going out again tonight right?”

At this, The girl will most probably send you a text message asking what are you talking about?

Text her back saying the following-

"Oh! Sorry...That was meant for someone else, but your name is right below that person's name in my phone contact list. I sent it to you by mistake."


And BAM! She would want you more than ever now.

Why you ask?

Well now she knows she has competition…Now you are more of a challenge and she knows she will have to work hard to ensure you don’t run away to another girl. Attraction is at it’s peak when the girl knows that she is about to lose the guy to another girl.

At the same time you are softly rejecting her by showing that you have other options to choose from and she’s not on top of your priority list. This would further burn her and she would try twice as hard to keep you.

Remember, it works much better on HB10's than it does with 6's or 5's. With 6's or 5's, if you were to send something like this, they would lose all hope.
Hope this helped.

awesome answers fellas, thanks for the tips. more are certainly welcome, as i still think im gonna wait a day or two before hitting her up...

Well, have you decided so far what you're going to say? This is an HB 10. You better have a good subject line because if it's "Hi" or "Hey," she's not gonna recognize you before she throws it in the trash with all the other "HI's" and "Hey's".

Thumbs up for Shinigaml. Very interesting stuff.

OP, you seemed to think that you f'd up when you got drunk, tucked your pipi between your legs and scattered home. So the instinct is to make excuses, "You were drunk, tired, etc . . ." Avoid this and go with Shinigaml's suggestions. Move forward and do it proactively and don't wait any longer.

Kasabi,

I dont feel i fucked up at all other than the fact that i did not grab her number.

we were very touchy all night, lots of kino, lots of eye-fucking, but barely any talking. this is a situation unlike any i have been in before but im gonna go with Shinigami's tactic.

Kasabi, you always throw out solid advice, too. thanks for that.

My 2 cents says she is gone! But, I hope I am wrong. Let us all know!

Props to Shinigaml, that was some really good advice! Keep us posted JKill, I'm interested to see if this girl is still interested in you or not

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I tried Shinigami tactic and it worked! I sent her a message on her facebook, not on her wall, but a personal message.

here's what i said:

subject: You won't believe what I did yesterday!

body:
I was on my way to meet a friend for a drink and I was stopped at a stop light. I looked over at the girl in the car next to me and


I stopped right there and within 20 mins she messages me back. here's what she said:

hahaha whaaaat? I'm assuming that's not the full story!

That was only 20 mins later. I still have not finished the story and will probably do so tonight when I get home from work.

So far, so good. Hopefully, she thinks about this a couple times today to wonder about what happened and get her mind focused on me.

by the way, Im gonna finish it by saying that i thought the girl in the car next to me was HER so I was waving at her and looked silly for making that mistake. Then, that girl ended up at the same bar as my friend and I and she ended up buying me drinks and hanging out with us.

this actually happened to me once before, but it wasn't HB10 in question.

any other suggestions on how to finish this story? I think it is kind of DHV and social proof and shows that I like to have fun. I'm confident it will work!

Glad to see she responded to your message! So how's it going now?

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