I have been learning pua stuff for few months now but I cant help but think will i ever truly become a natural.I mean even mpuas need routines, gimmicks and whatever. but i have a friend who i always go out with..he never approaches girls..he just sings kareoke, dances etc..thats all..he is not even a great singer,dancer or talker..but some hot girl always approaches him and talks to him, asks to kiss him and take her back to his place( no kidding, girls just fuck him, no shit testing, routines or LMR). There is something about him that magnetically gets women..can i ever be like that? I am far good looking than him..but girls never approach me..am jealous..

YES, you will become a natural if you work at this stuff.

First off, many mPUA's don't use routines or gimmicks. They have some answers to questions that they often repeat, just because that's the first thing they think of.

Now then, you're on a good path. You're starting to question routines in a constructive way.

As for guidance... perhaps check out some of David DeAngelo's cocky/funny stuff in Double Your Dating. Other than that, I would recommend simply looking around at Natural Game threads. Keep it up, man.

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And naturals don't.

Yes. The question is why are you not copying your friend to learn from him?
Looks are not everything tho.

Okay get this clear in your head, PUA stuff doesn't necessarily mean the bookish knowledge that you can find in any xyz coach's book. Your friend is simply being himself while you're out there trying to apply bookish knowledge without any flavor of naturalism and originality. Good stuff is not what they call "good", it's what works. From what I can see, your friend is a complete natural, does things that differentiate him from the rest of the crowd, comes off as a fun, carefree guy (sort of 'no strings attached') which attract women to him. At the same time he avoids doing things that an AFC might do (for e.g: appear to be a 'nice' guy) which keeps things going for him.

Sometimes even going out of the line isn't bad if you're confident while doing what you are doing. E.g: You must have read biting your nails is a no-no near women, but an alpha-male with a lot of self-confidence might bite his nails without a care in the world, laughing and goofing around. And that might as well attract some chicks! PUA stuff is more practical than technical, my friend

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Women are plenty, time is not.

After a while of reading anything from routine based game to natural and inner-game stuff, you will ingrain certain ways of thinking and acting into your personality and then it all feels natural and easy and you don't have to think about it. Just go out there, try out what works for you, and have fun! Also it can't hurt to hang around this natural friend of yours and see how he acts and what he says. Just hanging around carefree, fun people will mean some of that will rub off on you, plus you can game his target's friends

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