Hi, I am an AFC at the age of seventeen and I find talking to girls very difficult, I mean, I shake when I am near them (as if they are aliens to me) and I don't know what to say at all, However saying this when I talk to my mates, I am just casual with no pressure and feel no nerves so I just don't know the problem.

Anyone who can please give me some tips and others who are also in the same situation as me please come forward and give some advice.

Many Thanks

Vay

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'Results come from perseverance, determination and hard work.'

hey man, used to be in the same boat. You just gotta realize- they are people too, just like you and me. They brush their teeth in the morning. They burp, pass gas, etc.

just make some friends that are girls, thats always a great start. good luck.

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"Um, I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books, and my apartment smells of rich mahogany."

I used to be just like you! Make fun of them and you'll feel a lot more comfortable around them. I find that going in as the bad guy at first works wonders. Screw the nice guy approach (that's only AFTER you get her, and even then you have to be somewhat bad).

After meeting and talking to so many "hot" girls which I used to be afraid of because they were well...hot, I noticed that they aren't any different than the ugly ones! That was my primary reason for avoiding girls-because I would only be confident around ugly ones.

The truth is that even the hot ones can be creepy and weird, looks don't mean a THING.

My suggestion -

Write out a simple opener on some paper like:

Stop a girl in the street - hey do you know where the blah blah club is? , its my friends 21st and its going to be an awesome party.

or ask for direction to a bus stop, etc.

Do this opener to a whole lots of girls the more the better and most important enjoy yourself.

If thats too much even make the goals of going out to a pub or club by yourself and not approaching just getting used to the SPAM of the place and being there alone, accept that your alone and that your growing from this.

Also you said your a AFC, fuck that shit. your a PIMP from now on. you better believe it deep in your gut. most important.