Hi guys,

I've always been interested in the community, not just for the women side, but i've picked up so many skills from these pages that it has completely made my life some what better than it was a few years back.

I often read peoples posts which are similiar to the one im about to write, and think i know what to do, but its always good to get a second opinion.

So i've been seeing a girl for seven months. Had approximately 3 days between dumping my ex and getting with her. we've had ups and downs but who doesn't and recently it has become really strong.
Now i'm far from a 'player' and definately not a cheat, i'm one of those satisfied with a relationship when i have one.

So anyways, she calls me about an hour ago and drops this bombshell on me:

"I've just recieved a text from an unknown number which says you have been cheating on me"

Now i'm aware there are malicious people, and i certainly have my enemies but when she then questions my sincerity with:

"i dont know what to think, I need time out at the moment"

i got kinda cross, not because someone was nasty enough to do this, but because, having never given her anything to not trust me about, it feels she has never really trusted me in the 7 months we have been together.

It's put me in a bind. i've made many sacrifices for her and these weren't enough for her to trust me and that worries me as to how much it will actually take for her to be satisfied.
From what I often read on this site, i kinda have an idea what to do, but if anyone has any advice for us it'll be great to have.

Cheers guys,

-a very pee'd off, currently mobile phone number tracing LondonCharm

Tell her that if she doesn't trust you when you tell her honestly that you haven't cheated then clearly the relationship can't continue. Either she believes you and you move forward or it's over, end of story.

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Maybe this should be in the relationship forum?

relationships-vf128.html

She may be lying but sounds like theres major trust issues. Just say your case but if things dont improve it may be best to end to the relationship.

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