So, I have this one-itis that is NOT responding to anything I am doing. Clearly it means that she is not interested, but now it's about my pride! lol. Any tips on how to get this one done? I'm gonna try running an ESP DHV with her today to see how that goes. Any and all suggestions are greatly appreciated.

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The Kid

Swallow your pride, go out, and work on your game.

Afterwards bang ten girls. Report back when your done.

HA! done and DONE! thanks for the advice. But she's really really hot! lol

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The Kid

Well then give some more info, and wel try and help

I'm having the same problem as you except the girl definitely thinks of me as a friend although there could be room for more. According to Facebook, she may have a boyfriend and she is always texting so I get paranoid that it could be him. I have to either triumph over all this or somehow become unattracted to the coolest girl I've ever met. I'm in between a rock and a hard place.

Take a look at this post by Shyler

big-topic-about-curing-oneitis-vt74280.html

ok, so I am working with my one-itis on a project. The thing is, we're both actors, and our jobs on this project...well ok...to make a long story short, we have to make out a lot and really be super sexual with each other for the stage. It's great, we have great chemistry on set, but when we're on break or something, she gets distant, like uncomfortable or something which is weird because she told me that she's really comfortable with me (really really frustrating btw). So our conversations, if that's what you want to call them, are kind of awkward and short. I've neg'd her, I've dhv'd her, I've even gone the opposite way and complimented her a bunch, but I get nothing back. She reacts to the negs, she reacts to the dhv (I used an ESP dhv the other day and it worked perfectly), but then when I try to act on the IOI's I get nothing back....what am I doing wrong? I've even got a couple of friends of mine, who are also part of the project, to drop little dhv spikes about me to her. She's not really seeing anyone either, so...I'm seriously frustrated and confused about it because it's not working. Help please?

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The Kid

Shes not gonna want you to think that shes easy, so shes gonna say no.

Try to connect to her emotionally, i think.

Personally i havent much experience with this, so i wont be able to help out too much. Sorry :p

cool. thanks for the advice anyway! i'm gonna see what I can do to connect emotionally.

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The Kid

Withdraw everythign and stop trying. She may respond to this and is too used to all your pick up methods. Just chill.

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