So here are some background info:
Met this girl from my dorm via mutual friends, had a quick chat the night we met and learned that we both come from the same city, different High school. I found her on facebook, friend requested her and within 5 minutes got confirmation. I'd like to think she added me fairly quick but then again I do realize that it could be mere coincidence that she was online when I added her. I first initiated contact by sending her a message on facebook after she friended me. Once I got her number, I've texted with her and now I'm looking for some direction. Anyway, here it goes. Let me know how I am doing and hints, tips, advice on how/where to proceed would be greatly appreciated. Also, after going over the chat logs, would you guys say her interest in me is present or am I just shooting in the dark now? Names have been changed. Thanks in advance.
Facebook messages:
ME: Sep 3 13:27 Hi Sara, nice meeting you the other day, was wondering if you were going to be around this weekend? Take care
J
HER: Sep 4 00:13 Hey James! nice to meet you too!
I'm actually rushing so I'm going to be here this weekend. Hbu? ru going back to [shared hometown]?
ME: Sep 4 14:48 That's great, tell me how the rush process is going for ya. Unfortunately no [town name].. I'm actually here as well, if you have any free time this weekend, wanna chill?
HER: Sep 6 10:13 sounds great but i have rush all day this weekend, but ill txt u if it ends early! my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx!
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after i got that facebook message with pretty much SPAM her number for free, I was going to text her much much later (couple days?) but via some bullshit coincidence I saw her MUCH sooner than I would have liked and for a minute it was awkward cause she might have known that I had her number and didn't text her right back. BUT I played it off like I hadn't checked my facebook and seen the message where she gave me her number. When I got home, I sent her a text for the first time saying
"Hey, I just got your message. Been fairly busy but yeh lets hear about your rush process, which house are you rushing for"
to which she replied with "oh I liked ____ and ____ but theres so much options!"
And after that text, I didn't text her back at all and I guess I disengaged? Then the next day, I started off with a joke (and completely ignored/disregarded her last text about rushing)
(the following texts were somehow deleted so they are from memory but fairly accurate)
ME: What did sushi a say to sushi b?
HER: I dunno, what did sushi a say to sushi b???!?
ME: Wasaahh B? Ha so what ya up to?
HER: Hahahha
Nothing, ___ and my phone got "stolen" by our friends.
(following texts have date/time to show how long i've been waiting to respond. Do you guys think she is playing the same game on me?)
ME: Sep 7 14:02 Hope ya guys stole it back ha or else I guess I'm texting w the wrong person ha, now u should hijack theirs and have some fun.
HER: Sep 7 14:02 Hahah yeah thankfully i got it back! As u can tell lol Yeah good call i wanna steal their phoes n change their fb statuss n send random txts to strangers lol
ME: Sep 7 14:05 Payback is cruel. As such I almost think you should for sure update statuses and change profile pictures altogether
you've got so much options!
HER: Sep 7 14:18 Hahah i knw! Good fun lol theyre gunna regret stealing my cell! What ru up to now?
ME: Sep 7 14:34 Just hope I never steal urs cause I hav a tendency to get creative ha. I'm at the hospital, been waiting for a doctor to see me.. theyre dragging
HER: Sep 7 14:42 Shoot u okay?
ME: Sep 7 14:58 I'm ok, just got the cold.. fairly annoying but shit happens :/
HER: Sep 7 15:18 Ohh tht sucks, hope u feel better soon!
ME: Sep 7 15:25 Thank you, that's looking out! Ill talk to ya later, got prax
HER: Sep 7 15:25 Okayy ttyl!
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