I was wondering if anyone else has felt that a negative aspect of this community is the feeling that success with women is an extremely hard thing to get? I realised after a while being on this forum, that it sets up naturals and PUA's as all-mighty creatures who live the life of gods. When the reality is that their just guys pulling chicks, and their succesful simply because the have extensive experience in trying to pull chicks.

I mean seriously, do you think that if any guy- within reason- approached a women a day; and tried to pull her, get a date with her, or get her number; that he wouldn't become a natural around women?

Then again i suppose there are those guys who have been approaching for months and haven't got anywhere. So maybe I'm wrong.

So simply: whay do you think the path towards being a natural at seducing women really is?

PUA is nothing more then being confident, never running out of things to say or do and escalating the right way.
Some random guy can approach his ass off and still have no clue about what he's doing and eventually he'll just pick up the things that PUA's share already.

Have you ever started doing a new sport without having had any theory at all? You'll learn the sport in your own way and over time it'll work out, but it takes really long and you might not have the best technique.

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