I just started college about a week and a half ago. For the past couple of days, a girl has been sleeping in my bed. We haven't been doing anything real serious for the past couple of days. Most of the time she gently touches my body. I've been wondering what i should do to make things more serious.

Just wanted to throw this factor in as well. She's black and I'm half white/hispanic. I personally don't mind, but I was thinking that was a possible obstacle

This one should be quite easy! sounds to me like you just need to build up the KINO and kiss her!

Next time your in bed together just start stroking her or start stroking her back if she starts stroking you. The chances are she's stroking you in the places she would like to be stroked. Try legs, thighs, back of head, neck or forearm. If she doesn't like it she'll soon stop you. If she likes it she'll either start stroking you back or snuggle right into you, she may even say 'that feels nice'. Take any of these as massive IOI's (Indicators of interest) and then just keep it up for few minutes, turn yourself towards her and just kiss her. Shes in your bed and your stroking each other, there's no way she's going to turn you down when you try to kiss her and if she does just say "Sorry but WTF!? why are you in you in my bed rubbing me if you don't want to kiss me?"

Race has nothing to do with it sounds to me your really in their with this girl so go and close the deal!! PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENS

That sounds like a good idea. I'm new to this whole thing. I get kind of nervous because during the day we act like nothing going on. I don't wanna be a tool and just get used by this girl

Well if your seeing her all day dude you can build it up! Just try KINO (thats just touching and stuff). When your laughing together or she makes a joke, just put your arm round her or put your hand on her shoulder for a bit or when she takes the piss out of you for fun just give her a friendly jab or poke to her side and be like "hey! Do you wanna share my bed again or what!!?" Lean in real close when your talking, tell her your tired and rest your head on her shoulder. Say you like her bracelet and go to hold her hand to have a look.

Look for any opportunity to be more tactile and hands on with her during the day. It sounds like she likes you and is just as nervous and unsure about what to do as you.

Let me know what happens i wanna make sre you kiss this girl

man, you guys overthink this stuff too much. if she is in your bed already, then start rubbing her clit. they usually always try and stop you, in an attempt to not seem slutty. dont let her pull your hand away for a few seconds, then NO, turns to YES almost immediately. this has worked for me at least a dozen times.