Guys i'm new here.... In real need of help.... The girl i love hinks of me just a friend.... Once she said that she loved me and that she's all mine.... but then she caught me lying over things and she doesn't trust me.... She also had a boyfriend... she talks about him alot..... there were times when we used to talk for hours on phone, now she doesn't even call... we do talk once in a week, but just as friends.... she misses me, and sometimes i feel that she loves me, but she never says so...... once when her ex came between us, i din't talk to her for around six months.... she called on radio... she said that she was falling for me and missed me alot.... i talked to her and the same things again.... she just acted as nothing happened..... even her boy friend came back in her life..... sometimes it seems that she is more inclined towards her boyfriend, but then there are times...... now she is alone, we do talk in a blue moon, she says that she wants some one in her life.... she doesn't see me, right in front of her.... i've done evrything in my power to please her, going out of my way.... but seems i just turned into a wussy.... PLEASE HELP GUYS>>>>>

This relationship has too much drama. There is a name for this type of relationship.. its called TOXIC.

We all go through them at one point. Its a learning experience. I went through the same shit when I was younger and dumber.

So whats the solution? Easy... start meeting/hooking up with other girls. Once you are in the friendzone its almost impossible to get out.. and with all the women out there why would you waste your time trying?

You may not believe it now... ( I didn't either) but all women are replacable. There will also be women you come across in life that you just can't have.. no matter what you do. Learn to except that some women will reject you and its a waste of time and energy to cling on to them in HOPES they will eventually change their minds.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

This is oneitis. You deserve better then this pain.

read my post about curing oneitis and try to do something about it.
viewtopic.php?p=386674#386674

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You WANT to make a change.
You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.

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Yes mate, move on. I've been into this kind of stuff and it never works out at the end. You can make things better for yourself by accepting the friendship and moving on though.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

In answer to your question, YES, you have become a wuss.

Start taking control of your life. Check out the post on curing oneitis. You deserve better, so go out and get what you deserve. There are TONS of resources out there that will help you get there.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

Doing everything in your power to please her is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what you should do. Read my post in this thread about breaking out of the friend zone, hope it helps.

gaming-a-girl-you-have-history-with-vt74240.html

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