hi folks!

i met a guy whilst beeing abroad (6 hours apart) for a coffee..it was nice, he invited me to come visit him a few weeks later...i stayed there for three days, it was amazing, amazing sexual chemistry, both very into each other..

the problem: we both really do want to see each other again soon (probably in 3 weeks) , but never discussed where this could lead to due to the fact that we hardly lnow each other. the problem is that he had very problematic relationships and was together with control freaks and aspires a lot of freedom. he got a hint that i share his views.

question: when getting to know someone long distance its always goos to keep contact regularily via cam, telephone, sms etc. to make up for the distance and not being able to see each other and to keep the flame going. in this case however i do not want to appear clingy as that is exactly what he doesnt want, so im not sure how often i should get / initiate contact, especially as everything is at a very early stage..on the other hand i want to sustain the vibe..

advice?