Hey I have average success with girls but i believe one of my flaws is turning my conversations sexual without being seen as a predator if you get me .

I can do it with girls ive known for a long time but its done in a joking manner e.g. i could say " shut it or suck my cock " and get away with it without it being seen weird ( even thats not sexual really)

With new girls I find it hard to turn my conversation sexual ( maybe i need to build comfort first ? )

E.g. I was talking to some girl about Vaseline and it went onto aloe vera in Vaseline and i told her i had an aloe vera plant at home ( at that point i was thinking to myself omg im an idiot where the hell is this conversation going Quick rescue it !) so i said " yeah i use to have one until my silly dog eat it "

I mean i saved that conversation but i want it to turn sexual

so my question is

How do you turn a conversation casually sexual
And is it ok to bust girls balls all the time in a conversation in a joking manner ?

Start with making fun of sex. Talk about homos, famous people busted for sexual acts, etc. And then make a compliment about her looks or something. She'll tie your compliment to the sexual conversation from before.

dont make fun of homo tho! nothing would turn a person off more than ignorance and the 'isms'

However, that sort of ignorance is very common seeing how most of the population is straight.

Yeah that makes sense cheers I could see how that would work e.g. like talking about tiger woods and whether she believes he was addicted to sex or not and if anyone could be addicted to sex and if not then their all doing it wrong

my usual go to is food one of the most sexual things we use each day. Think what else do you put in your body but food and penis, right?

I'm often told im a very sexual person in what i talk about thought so turning anything sexual isnt an issue to me.

Think there thinking it just as much as we are and maybe have a statistic supporting.

Also alot of adds and things we come across every day dont only look sexual but are made from a sexual idea. Think toyota "Box", Target and Starbucks logos, anything involving tones or red, or just mentioning sexy things about people walking by.

All ways to just throw alittle sex into the convo.

My two favorite ways to turn conversations sexual are role playing and misinterpretation.

Misinterpretation:

HB: Today I spilled grape soda all over my dress. I feel like such a clutz.
Me: Whoa! I didn't know you were into that fetish stuff. I mean, if you paid me I'd tie you up and gag you, but you'd have to sign a waiver first.
HB: *Quizzical look*
Me: Ohhhhh, you said GRAPE. Sorry, I heard something else and got excited.

Btw, my personality/humor is a bit extreme so if this doesn't mesh with you, then adjust it. People either really love me or get offended, no middle ground


Role Playing:

The good ol' reliable "marry/divorce" routine:

HB does something you don't approve of.
Me: Ok, that's it. We're done for. You can keep the kids but I want back all my Billy Idol cd's. And all the kinky stuff you liked me to do with the orange marmalade, well, you can forget it!

If she likes you, she'll more than likely comment on the sex thing and you can go from there and play along.

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