So I met this chick at the club and I got off at a good start. We talked bla bla, I moved her to the vip lounge room. We kissed and I got her number. We danced and talked all night. She came to the after party and we fucked in the bathroom lol. When she left home I said I got ur number but U dont have mine haha, just messin wit her. Then shes like... lets see if you even call me. So I text her the next day and we bullshit and I told her we should hang out again. So today we went out to lunch and we talked for a couple hours. Then I brought her back to her car and I hugged her and said goodbye. Then I called her like 2 minutes later saying I forgot to give her something. So we meet up again, I kept my window up and told her come in my car and shes like what did u forget to give me. I went to kiss her and she gave me her cheek and I kissed her cheek and then I moved her face toward me so I can make out with her. Then I kissed her. So then she got out of the car and said I cant believe you did that and smiled. I said I cant believe you felt for it. So we left and she texd me sayin "your crazy" and she called me saying she almost got into a accident. My question here is I feel like shes not really into me, I dunno, I feel like I'm bothering her when I'm textin her and she never texts me first. What should my next step be.

She just texted me....well ok ill b straight up ur cool we can get to know each other more bt im really nt lookin for a relationship, we can hang out as much as u want and if things lead to an other cool, bt as of now i only want a cool, chill frienship ok?

ouch. well, first of all, you need to work on your inner game. You should never feel like you're "bothering" a girl when you text her, it should always be cause you WANT to and you know she WANTS you to as well. As far as the whole cheek thing..she probably feels a little slutty for sleeping with you at an afterparty in a bathroom. Speaking as a woman who's done just such a thing, it feels really dirty and horrible, unless you've known the person (in this case, you) for a while and then, it's like this whole other feeling..it's dirty, but the girl doesn't care because she trusts you and knows that she'll see you again and next time it will be less..slutty.
Honestly, you need to let her know that you are not going to be LJBFed, or else, it's game over and she'll shut down. She smiled after you kissed her, and she probably said the thing about being friends because you didn't just go for the kiss while you were with her for a few hours. no girl spends that much time with a guy unless she's into him. So maybe during the day 2 you didn't build enough comfort and get her back into that seductive stage in her brain. It's all about seeding. Let her know what a great time she'll have by planting it. Send her a text in a few days (you need to freeze her out, by the way) stating that you're gonna be doing such and such and she should come but she probably won't because she'll be too busy doing something dull and boring and not being with you. When you do see her again, game her like you did initially. You basically have to start all over so you don't get thrown into the friend zone.
B

this was our last convo:

me:
lol I cant believe you thought I was lookin for a relation ship....you and I would never get along anyways haha

were too similiar

11:15pm
lmao ur right

11:15pmMe
I wouldnt take your shit and you woudlnt take mine

lol

11:15pm
jejeje i guess so

11:17pm
ur to serious for me anyways

11:18pmMe
thought I was krazy

11:19pm
lol i still dont know u too wel

well

11:20pmMe
ull never know me well ha

11:20pm
goes both ways

thanx for the advice "B". So I should of kissed her while we were eating lunch instead of waiting till the end?

Yes! Well, not during, but you should have been kino-ing her the whole time. And you should have kissed her at the end, and not have done it after you guys had stopped the interaction. That was cute and I think she liked it, because it showed you cared, but I think it would have been less subtle if you just would have gone for it.
And in this text game, it looks like you had her again, and then let it go on too long (the texting, I mean). You need to freeze her out. Drop her out of your life for about 2 days until she's like..what the hell? I thought that guy was into me? Then, text her in 2 days and re-open her, but maybe be more seductive and a little more caring. Show her that you didn't just use her. Remember what I said about the whole slutty bathroom thing? Keep that in mind, or she'll never see you again.
Glad I could help you, Kreeper. Creepy name, by the way.

Well we sat across from her for the first 30 minutes then I saw next to her and I had my arm around her and stuff. I just didnt kiss her at that moment. I offered her a piece of gum and she said no. So I thought that she didnt want me kissing her.

She said me calling her to tell her she forgot something was cheesy, I told her shes double cheesy for falling for it, and she laughed.

If I dont text her for 2 days then shes gonna be like "oh so he thats really what he wanted, he wanted to get into a relationship" wont she be pissed because now she'll think that I'm not talking to her because she said lets be friends?

Oh and another thing she didnt have anything to drink that night because she is 19 so she knew what she was doing. Im 22 by the way. My friend told her too that I just got out of a 7 year relationship. So that probably scared her away. She asked me wats the longest Ive been in a relation ship and I told her the trust and she said she already knew but she wanted to see if I would lie.

Honestly, she's into you. I think she's playing hard to get and worried that you'll just throw her out OR keep expecting her to sleep with you like she did the first night.
Yes, freeze her out. I know it may not make a lot of sense, but it's a punishment for her trying to throw you in the friend zone. She needs to realize that you do things your way and if she doesn't like it, there are 10 other girls right behind her that will LOVE it.
Don't be a jerk or anything, be funny, and I'm telling you, text her with something in 2 days to "seed"..tell her what a great massage you give, too bad she wants to be just friends..or tell her about the most amazing kiss you've ever had (while being nice, just paint her a picture) and let he know that could be her.

B

Ok wil try that thanx...Only problem I see here I the next to days shes supposed to go to her friends funeral. Witch is pretty odd because first time we went into the bathroom we foreplayed then she stopped and said this is crazy and she started telling me the story how her friend died the night b4. I was like wow Im so sorry bla bla. Then we left the bathroom and like 2 hours later we went back in and we had sex. Shes really hard to read. She has a kid too so shes real mature for her age.