Hello, so I'm meeting this girl in person for the first time, we met online. She says by text that: she'll text me when she gets off work and bring change of clothes.

From her work place, her residence is the opposite direction of the meeting place. So she can't go back and change at home. My place is closer to our meeting place.

Does she mean that she'll bring clothes to work and change at work before she gets here, or does this mean she wants to change at my place? She seems like an HB8 in her pictures.

I have never met her before, so I am somewhat reluctant to meet her at my residence the first time we ever meet. At the same time, I don't want to appear rude. Should I try to find out by text and if so, what's a good way to put it? Or did I simply misinterpret the text, she will change at work and meet up at the meet-up location?

Thanks.

Edit: one more thing. She did not have her picture posted on the dating site, but emailed me her picture.

I would probuably respond to her txt assuming she is not going to go to your place to change. I think it might creep her out if you respond with "Okay great! Ill leave my front door unlocked, make yourself comforatble"

okay i know you would say it like that or be THAT creepy

but point is, I think if you assume your going to meet up at the resturant and you are right, all is good.
If you assume your going to meet up at your place first for her to change, it could blow it up or be awkward than lead to an awkward meal.

But then again, im new here. Although i believe i do make sense...

Any one else????