I'm about ready to give up......

Let me bring yall up to speed.

Girl tells me "Your not my type", but girl continues to talk to me as if I'm her boyfriend, telling me about every single aspect of her day what have you, girl calls me every time she gets scared. Girl always uses lines like "oh whhattteevverr you know you want me/babies/body." Girls ask MEE of all people, how to turn down ANOTHER GUY. When I say tell him the same thing you told me, GIRL COMPLETELY IGNORES WHAT I SAID. Girl ask me stuff like "would you approach me if you didn't know me?". But when I turn around and ask her if she would give me her # if I approached her GUESS WHAT SHE SAID?????



If you said "You're not my type" then you guessed correctly. I'm feed up with this non-sense of does she like me or not? I'm about ready to just cut off ties with her, BUT I posted this up to get some opinions because I don't want to do anything irrational.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

You are in the friend zone sir, there is nothing you can do about it now. She is using you as an emotional tampon. When she needs an ego boost, guess who she runs to....YOU. This is what all girls do with guys they have no intention of f*cking...excuse the harsh language.

If you want to continue being a 'friend' by offering advice, keep doing what you're doing. But don't think for one second that 'helping' her will make her WANT you, attraction doesn't work that way.

"oh whhattteevverr you know you want me/babies/body."
My respoonse: Don't flatter yourself sweetheart.

"Girls ask MEE of all people, how to turn down ANOTHER GUY"
My repsonse: Fart, that will send any guy running for the hills.

"would you approach me if you didn't know me?"
My response: Only if you were buying me a drink.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I myself am struggling to get out of the friend-zone of a girl. She keeps bringing up issues in her life that she should be talking with one of her female friends about, which is a clear indicator. What I've been doing is change subject and turn the conversation around, for example she mailed me a picture of the medicine pills she has to take because of an illness, I told her the pink one looked cute and asked if that was the one she took to not have to use make-up (this sounds like a cheap shallow compliment, but we've been discussing makeup before and it was actually meant as a neg, at least she took it that way). The conversation went away from illness and medicine to something a bit more sexual of nature.

Also, recently I've been setting up some roleplays (calling her honey and stuff). She hasn't responded as well as I'd hoped, but she hasn't exactly freaked out either. I'm taking it as a positive sign, since I've suddenly changed from her friend to something else, and I guess she just has to digest that thought. Basically pull yourself out of the friend-zone and be sure to let her know that you're interested in something else. Note that my experience with this is mainly through texting.

dude you're so right, I needed to hear this thank you sir.....no need in being friends with a girl. I get nothing out of it.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?