Hi there, I've been using the pick up arts to improve my social interactions with women and over the past year have been noticing real differences. I am not seeking to become a PUA, at least in this stage of my life, but I am enjoying becoming a better person in general.

Anyway I've got a question that perhaps some of you could share your opinions on.

Would you say that that it would bring you in the wrong direction to help girls out with classwork? I'm a uni student and recently I've been helping a few girls out with stuff that I get and they don't. I wonder if this puts me in a lower position, despite the fact that whenever I'm working with a girl our interactions are usually fairly playful, due to me more recently opening up to my (very enjoyable to use) C/F side that's been hidden in me.

I usually volunteer to help for a few reasons, first of all it's actually useful for me as it helps me learn, second it's fun to spend time with these girls, even if it's with classwork and finally because I do geniunely like to help others.

So do you think that offering to help girls out can work to my advantage? Or is it an AFC trait that would just push me into the box of a platonic friend.

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My initial thought is that girls who genuinely enjoyed your help wouldn't risk having a (sexual) relationship with you for the risk of losing that help. If the focus of your interactions is you helping them with their work, then I think it might be a LJBF-creator.