So i know this girl for a couple of weeks and we haven't done anything (not even kiss). But I think she may like me but not sure yet. She likes someone else but I think she still finds me attractive. But she doesn't know that I like her. Im trying to build a little bit more attraction between us.

So what Im thinking is maybe I should walk into her dorm (were in college) with a big smile and than just pause a little kind of like shocked. than say could I have your hand, let her stand up and than ill say "close your eyes". then ill spin her (checking her out) then stop her with my hand on her hips. then say "open your eyes" and then slowly say "you look amazing". Than just with her reaction maybe lean down and kiss her or i guess if it fails say "too bad your not my type, your beautiful"

any opinions on this?

Also earlier today I told her i was going to study with another girl and she said oh so your cheating on me (or something like that)? would what she said be considered a IOI?

I'd say that the answer to the last question is a definite yes.

I think you should go for it. If you create the right SPAM (by having the right body posture and state of mind) she'll lose her breath. A tip for doing so that I read somewhere on these forums is imagining you having intense and sensual sex with her right before you approach her - you'll have that gleam in your eyes that'll make her interested right away.

Yes that is an IOI

I would do everything apart from the last part. Spin her around, say you look great (not beautiful or pretty), and then push her away a little and say "pity your not my type" with a cheeky smirk. Save the kiss after you've kino escalated more and build more comfort, otherwise it's too much of a state break, especially in a public place.

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That's a really cheezy routine you got there. Imagine yourself being that girl and the guy you like changes all of a sudden and does something weird like that. Just visit, be yourself (the one she likes) and physically escalate (some light touches when telling a story). You could of course start with the spin when you meet her but kissing her right away might just be weird and takes alot of courage from your side.

Good luck though

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ok thanks guys. Ill probably not do the kiss thing but ill do the spin and say she looks good.

I have one more thing to ask. Where do i stand if im hanging out with her and she just mentions to me "i love alexis" (the person she likes)... is it over for me, do i have a chance? is she just trying to like lead me away or w.e.

Depending on what 'hanging out' means to you both I'd say she tries to make you jealous in some way. Only you can decide here since you might be in the friends zone and she just wants to tell a 'friend' how much she loves some other douchebag. Or she might see you as a potential lover and wants to make you try harder by making you jealous.

Does she go on dates with this other guy? Did they kiss/fuck whatever? Try to read through the bullshit and try putting your balls on the table sometime. If you never start touching/sexually escalating her you'll just be seen as a friend and if she clearly refuses your courting then atleast you know your place and you can give closure to the 'relationship' and move on.

It might be hard to have a chance to lose this girl but atleast you tried, what you're doing now probably won't lead anywhere unless she gets horny all of a sudden and starts molesting you. Believe in yourself, you'll know what to do and I'm sure with a little bit of effort it'll work out well.

Goodluck

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