This will seem utterly ridiculous, but I have to ask.

What makes a good kiss? Was getting on great with a girl, but just making out, when the next day she's just outright cold and no longer sexual. After alot of asking what's wrong (I know I know..), turns out she was totally turned off by my kissing. This especially sucks as she was begging me beforehand to kiss. She said in what seemed sort of sincere to that apart from that she thought i was perfect but she cant get past the kissing which made it all the worse. I admit it was pretty bad.

I get that the actual answer would be I should go practice and be in the moment, and yeh my latest attempts have been an improvement i think. results wise definitely anyway. but does anyone have technical tips?

How close should i keep my lips together. do i suck slightly when i open my lips or when i'm closing or both. Should I try and make the kiss better by moving my lower lip sideways as well when movements finished really? I can tell when girls im kissing are good as it feels nice on the lips but i cant tell why they are.

Thanks for the help in advance! I know it's ridiculous, but pointers would be great.

Friend, the first thing you should do, as I remember from a Michael Pilinski book, is create a "romance trance". Do something romantic prior to kissing to set the perfect tone. This is what a lot of us don't do. Until and unless you set that tone and get both of you in that mood, your mind+body co-ordination might not be at it's best. Trust me this can solve half of your troubles.

Now, onto the "how to kiss" part, there are ample of sources where you can gain theoretical knowledge from. (http://g8tx.com/books/Dating/the%20art% ... ing%20.pdf).

You can also find a ladyfriend you can practice making out with. Other than that I do not believe there exists some magical short-cut technique to kiss like a pro.

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This is crucial.

First of all, the most important thing about kissing is that your styles mesh. If she's one of those light and airy kissers, you won't win many points by shoving your tongue down her throat. And if she's a biter, light, airy kisses will get you nowhere.

Kiss her lightly, with a little tongue, and see how she responds. Then mirror her style.

Kissing her neck and ears (please don't stick your tongue in her ear - gross) is also extremely important since these are huge erogenous zones for women. Nibbling on her lower lip is hot also.