So i met this girl, we get a long. I negged her before and now we are somewhat emotionally connecting. She told me I am hard to read sometimes and i joke around a lot (not all the time) but just to make her laugh in which she does.

There's a slight problem though. I suspect she is also talking to someone else and seems to be talking to this person a LOT more than me. For example, she takes a little long to respond on msn. I asked to talk on SPAM a couple of times, she told me she was a bit tired but yet she was logged on SPAM. I looked at her profile list and see that she has only 2 contacts on SPAM which is me and another person.

We texted a couple of times today. She seems really into me when she talks to me but I don't know. We joke around, flirt and even talk sexually sometimes.

I am starting to like this girl, im doing all the right things and am NOT needy. What am I doing wrong?

...um...whats wrong with her talking to other people? Last time I checked you can't just lock down someone so they can only talk to you....thats just wierd

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My post was quite clear yet you seemed to have misconstrued it. Like that was soo hard to understand "rolls eyes"

I never said she couldn't talk to other people. I said she is talking to someone else and seems to be talking to that person more than me. It's not a matter of the other person, it's a matter of what I may or may not be doing wrong that she is not talking to me as much.

maybe this other person is her best friend? maybe she's gaming you too? Maybe she's not talking to that person much at all?

maybe your vagina is sandy and you're stressing over shit that doesn't matter?

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Wow you are such a genius son .

You deserve a trophy .

Bravo "claps hands"

"wink wink"

Your putting all of your eggs in this one basket. Thats never a good idea. She's talking to other guys. And? Attractive girls talk to dozens of other guys every day, and some she may even be attracted to.

The key is to.....not care. Be smart, witty, and funny, but dont creep her and stress over this other guy so much. Your only gonna get frustrated and shoot yourself in the foot.

Do you see this girl often or do you always talk on the computer? Maybe she's actually SEEING this guy in person, thats obviously an advantage over being a chat buddy on MSN. When your the "other" guy like you think you are, just take some initiative and try and meet her for lunch or set something up.

True. Im still new to the gaming world so it's hard not to revert back to old ways.

I'm talking to 4 girls at the moment but she is the one I am most attracted to and compatible with which is why i am wondering on how i can improve game with her.

Thanks!