I think I am a fairly average guy with girls, perhaps a little better than the average. Girls think I'm cute and funny but it's rare it gets sexual. In anycase, I want to test to see if PUA stuff really works so I will try it tonight by optimizing all my self-perceived flaws. I will post results Saturday morning after tonight. I have gotten numbers but haven't kissed any girl yet in Sweden...

I am in Sweden so here are my questions:

a. should I dress Jersey Shore or more conservative East Coast? I've been wearing flashy Jersey Shore type shirts and I garner lots of attention but no one in Scandinavia really dresses the way I do, nor in Europe for that matter, so I really stand out. Is this a good thing or bad thing since conformity seems important in Sweden? i've met a danish girl dressed and she said "why me, plenty of other pretty girls here." so it seems like girls think im a player or something? i tried kissing her and she resisted... maybe because her friends were near or something

b. i have a funny story but i was wondering maybe its too sexually explicit, what do you guys think? my friends told me if i lose a drinking game i had to shave my pubes to a heart because i needed to rep the US while i was abroad in a sexually liberal place like scandinavia. this is true and i still have it but im wondering if it will sketch girls out. also, when i left the us i told a girl about it and she kept saying she wanted to see it! it was akward because i was with a guy friend and she kept saying she wanted to see it in front of him

c. I'm meeting lots of students in Sweden but I don't know if one night stands are possible here since a lot of Europeans seem to care about their reputations, and I feel uncomfortable now kissing girls in front of their friends since I'm sure they are embarassed about it. What advice do you guys have? I have no problem getting numbers, and European girls are very easy going without much bitch shields it seems like but I have no game here, even though I get a lot of numbers. How do I translate these numbers to lays? How can I bring girls back to my place? Should I invite them for dinner or something?

d. what do you guys think of this routine. "ive heard ____ (insert nationality here) girls are sexual/slutty/or good/bad at kissing. is this true?"

e. how should i sexually escalate?

f. i see people making out on the dance floor but its techno and you cant really grind to it. is it appropriate to ask girls if they want to dance? mystery says avoid the dance floor. im wondering, are these people people that have met before or strangers that have been picked up on the dance floor?

a. Swedish and scandinavian girls have a high initial bitch shield. its a different culture. Believe me, Im swedish. Doesnt matter what you wear until you can get past opening without looking like a wierdo.

b. She was shittesting you and having a laugh. Nope, that story is not so interesting that it outweights the sexual part. You need to make it more emotionally interesting.

c. All girls care about their reps. And ONS are not a problem. You just need to communicate with them in their way and make them feel safe.

d. That sucks. Basically you are tryhard, insulting and not smooth at all. Bad idea.

e. Like everywhere else.

f. Stay off the dancefloor for pickup reasons. If I dance I do that and ignore the girls completely. It is a place where I can let the girls come to me, I see whos looking and whos not. Like a calibration spot.

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1) sexy stereotype
2) make a gameplan (ie how do you want to game like your goals with women)
3) execute your game plan
4) write down your results


repeat

all the things u r thinking about is limiting beliefs

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so is it true that swedish girls usually pick the guy? maybe im being too aggressive?

ive had girls come up to me a few times but im wondering if this is common or not. i have no problem initiating conversations and talking with girls, its just a matter of taking it to the next level i am getting stuck at.

i usually approach 2 sets but im always alone so how do i isolate? and do i isolate by taking her to the dance floor or bar?

No it is not true that Swedish women pick the guy up. It is true that they are extremely difficult because they are generally speaking smoking hot! Insanely hot. And the bad news is that the guys are too.

Who cares about isolation, just do stuff while her friend is there. In Sweden, the friends opinion is majorly important.

If you are not in their social circle and your game isnt awesome, youre out.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

ok so let me get all this straightened out...

a. you're telling me swedish girls have high bitchshields? what does that entail exactly? every single swedish girl i met so far has been ridiculously nice to me and more than willing to talk to me.... i think this high bitchshield is bullshit because swedish girls in me experience so far are really nice and sweet!

however, they usually have boyfriends!

b. all of us have different sticking points/problems. is it possible girls are intimidated by me because im to well dressed and good looking? not many asians here and they all look at me with some interest

c. although i disagree with the high bitchshield part, i do think swedish girls are hard and don't do one night stands? there is this perception in america that swedish girls are hot but really easy. is this just a myth? americans also say this about europe in general but it doesnt seem true?

d. do you guys promote direct vs indirect? i used to get a new girl every 2 weeks or so, and at least make out everytime i went out in the states, but i dont know. i feel like i lost everything...has this happened to anyone?

ok so let me get all this straightened out...

a. you're telling me swedish girls have high bitchshields? what does that entail exactly? every single swedish girl i met so far has been ridiculously nice to me and more than willing to talk to me.... i think this high bitchshield is bullshit because swedish girls in me experience so far are really nice and sweet!

however, they usually have boyfriends!

b. all of us have different sticking points/problems. is it possible girls are intimidated by me because im to well dressed and good looking? not many asians here and they all look at me with some interest

c. although i disagree with the high bitchshield part, i do think swedish girls are hard and don't do one night stands? there is this perception in america that swedish girls are hot but really easy. is this just a myth? americans also say this about europe in general but it doesnt seem true?

d. do you guys promote direct vs indirect? i used to get a new girl every 2 weeks or so, and at least make out everytime i went out in the states, but i dont know. i feel like i lost everything...has this happened to anyone?

a. Well, Im talking from a Swedish point of view. As a foreigner I guess its different. Swedish people are protective. We are nice, yes, but we are very selective of who we allow to come close to us.

c. Swedish girls do ONS. They are far from easy but with the right guy... It happened to me more than once...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn