So I broke up with my ex a few months ago and a few weeks ago I started seeing a certain someone.

We clicked, we got on. We had sex a few times. It wasn't a relationship yet, but this week she suddenly stopped talking to me. No txts, IMs or FB messages. I saw that she was talking to other people on FB, but wouldn't respond to me.

She suddenly stopped showing up on my MSN contacts. I never smothered her, I barely txt'd her and we talked on MSN sometimes. She said she liked me without me having to fish for it, and she also said the sex was amazing. I never said that I was overly into her or anything.

Today, I came to the conclusion she used me. The gutless bitch won't even tell me. I tried not to fall for her, but I did and now I'm hurt once again. She seemed like such a nice, well rounded person. I trusted her and thought the best.

What the hell did I do to deserve this???? I was nothing but open and honest with her. I have deleted her number and FB.

Shit happens in life, even if we feel as if we didn't deserve it. There isn't anything you can do about this since she is shutting you out.

Now it's time to move on, whichever way you usually do it.

I won't say that it was a good choice removing her contact information completely as I personally wouldn't even bother. I would leave it there and forget about her.

By actually doing the work and removing all her contact info, you're reacting too much. You're showing that you're upset.

However, my way of doing it and your way of doing it don't have "right" or "wrong". Both points can be argued.

Hey man,

I won't weigh in on what went down, just want to offer an opinion on deleting her number/facebook. I delete the number in this situation, when I open my list of contacts searching for someone's info, if I see "Ex's name" it can throw my positive outlook for a loop, so I reinforce the knowledge that life goes on without that person by getting rid of reminders of her.

Walk easy dude

I've been through something similar.

I've realized that it is not a fault on the man's part, but rather on the chick.

She's avoiding you, because she is falling for you and doesn't want to risk getting hurt.

Unless she behaves the same way to a lot of other guys too then maybe she is a player.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

Well, I guess she's totally blown it. I'm not going to stick around putting up with her indecisive crap.

This girl is also not one to sleep around, I don't think. She has my number and email, she could contact if she wanted to.

This is actually the best way to go around this.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

next time don't fall for someone at the begining,even if everything looks perfect.That's one of the things you learn the hard way

makes sense.

i went through a very similar situation with a girl a while back. she is the reason i got into all of this stuff.

in my opinion, the reason you are hurt op and wanting her back is not necessarily because she is such an awesome girl, but because you want what you can 't have.

If you fuck a girl - do you think you used her ?

if she fucked you - you think she used you. How come ?