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PostPosted: Tue Aug 24, 2010 5:09 am 
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Hey guys, I'm wondering about how to answer a pretty common question that a girl or ex can ask. "Do you hate me?" Are girls trying to see if they fazed you when they ask that? If so, which answer is better and more Alpha? Yes or no? (Note: I don't actually hate her, I actually love her. But I'm not particularly happy with her either.)


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Don't asnwer it with yes and don't answer it with no either. Eventhough I hardly believe in shit-tests this might just be one. Turn that question into a frame of your likings. 'Why would you think that?' or 'Why? Do you hate me or something?' and don't say it with a serious face. I think you'll get a much better response then saying 'no, I don't hate you blabla'

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If you had sex with her,tell her you will tell her later.If you didn't,say "I course i hate you,that;s why i hang around with you" in a C&F way that's what i would do,hope it helps!


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Honestly, that's a really needy question to ask, and those asking it are typially seeking either validation or reassurance. If you're getting this question frequently, I'd change your social group and hang out with people who are less needy/insecure. Insecurity can be okay in small doses, but after a while it just gets tedious.


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Answer those question with questions. You can stay in lead of the comversation this way and doesn't have to take her shit tests, also you can appear more mysterious by not revealing too much info about yourself. And of course, C&F works great in this case too, answer her with question and neg her if needed. But I usually push/pull at this point.


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"Do you hate me?"

Me: "Yah, sometimes I feel like you're such an ass to be around. You're always talking about this shet and that. You're always so worry about what other thinks. You're so unrelaxed. I mean come on. Chill the fuck out"

Funny me: "Yah. You are really caring. You listen to what i have to say. You are fun. You like to watch movies with me. You like to bike with me. You keep me company when I'm down. How can I not hate you? "

her: aw... smiles.

me: now tell me. Do you hate me as much as I hate you?

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 12:42 pm 
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Assuming if you have built enough kino and rapport.

HB: "Do you hate me "

Me: Yes.... I hate you A LOT for making me not being able to resist the urge to do this.... *KISS HER*


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Say of course,and move on...not taking her serious


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Say of course,and move on...not taking her serious
but "do you hate me" is such a hook for creating some more sexual tension and emotional connection. i wouldn't want to miss a chance turning it into something positive for us.

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So much that I was gonna kill you with that lamp over there but now that you found out... I gotta think of something else.

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