How do you let a girl know you have a fetish when you are flirting with her, or when you are just talking with her casually? Sometimes, when you are with friends, sexual stories pop up, or what if there is a certain fetish fantasy you want fulfilled, but you don't know how to bring it up? I'm assuming that at the very least, you have to have some social value before bringing it up. And then you have to bring it up in a way that isn't going to come off as creepy or needy.

I'm actually surprised that there aren't more topics about this. There are topics about everything else.

If it comes up, embrace it and don't be embarrassed by it. Show that you're so alpha you don't care what others think of your fetish.

There's a good chance girls will want to help for fill your fantasy if you have the right attitude. Don't act creepy by looking nervous, breaking eye contact, stuttering etc.

Exactly, embrace those things about yourself and dont be afraid to express it to her. If I were talking to a girl about wanting to experiment with different fetishes, the best time would be to bring it up during Foreplay or when things are about to get hot and heavy.

Be serious and dont treat as a joke or laugh it off if she refuses. Tell her straight faced what you'd like to try with her. If she doesn't feel comfortable, not a problem. Things that she likes you to do when you have sex with her? Use as leverage Thats the push-pull of this whole thing. Dont be hurtful or mean about it but be playful about it and dont let her have too much fun.

Why does she get all of the fun?

Dont be afraid to go balls in with this, it's respectable as hell. Alot of people keep it bottled up inside because their insecure about their own sexual fantasies and they just become frustrated.