Ok, first of all hello to all, I'm Mr.Miyagi as I hope you all guessed.
I'm not sure where this should be posted so I'm using general questions to stay clear of breaking forum rules. This article is basically some background information on me and what I think of "game". Help with my views would be much appreciated as I'm sure I'm not perfect or anywhere near it.
Background info on me: well firstly I'll admit I stumbled upon this forum quite recently by accident, I had heard about the show "Pick-up Artist" and was curious.
I decided to read some when I encountered it and ended up not watching the show (and still haven't).
Extremely interesting stuff so far and I haven't even dipped more than a finger into "Game".
I'm 19 from Ireland, I see myself as a confident, strong person. Having had a more than testing childhood I don't think I have come out to badly at the other side. not sure if details are necessary but you can ask if you want some.
I have always had a large friend base, in school was part of a lot of different groups and found it easy to get on with everyone but i did come across my fair share of bullying (1 or 2 people in some groups). I was capable of standing up for myself in these occasions (in a smart way, not physically or anything) + I mostly paid no attention.
As far as girls go I am quite confident in my myself and my abilities (I have never had a GF but i think this is something i will venture into in the coming months, providing the right girl is involved obviously). From what I read on here I would say I sway towards natural gaming, I don't like using canned material or routines basically because it feels uncomfortable. I just read an extremely good post by
"The_Edge_Michael"which has given me confidence that I am on the right track. (for me)
My take on "gaming" as it is called (with a little help from the forum) is firstly, No Girl or Guy you will ever meet is perfect, nor are you. Perfect should not be in your vocabulary.
Being yourself is best- let your personality out for all to see in a positive and confident manner.
It is not a mistake if you learn from it- At some point EVERYONE will make.. well a mistake..(misjudgement) or two, or three, or four! But if you really learn from the experience and build from it, it should not be seen as a mistake.
Adaptability is key- you must be readily adaptable to situations when they don't go how you might expect them to. We adapt to situations everyday without even thinking!! this should be the aim with pick-up.
Treat everyone the same- treat your HB10''s like you would a HB5-6, just because the 10 is better looking does not mean you should assume she will be a tougher pick-up in any way or that you should have to act differently (not yourself) to get/ keep her interested.
Have your own opinion- don't agree with something a girl says if you don't genuinely agree with it. I think this is a very common mistake and can be spotted very easily. This is really being yourself but a little more specific.
These are a very few aspects of what I take from "game" within the forum and my previous experiences with girls. I am willing to discuss these further and of course others, and all posts are appreciated. I basically want to be questioned because I want to be better, not only in pick up but in life.
Sorry if this post was long and boring but thanks for reading!!
Mr. Miyagi out.
CHAT