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I live in a small town of under 35,000 people and I'm just having a problem of gaming the same girl twice or making enemies in my neighbourhood
In the LS newbie mission it says to approach about 60 sets
I have not started gaming yet
im 18 and do not have a car yet (test is next month).
Hi mate, I live in a small town too so what I usually do is catch the train to a nearby town and do my approaches there (day game) but I suppose you could also do the same for night game.
What do you wish to work on the most, day/night or both? Also are you from the UK?
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I probably need to start sarging alone as my friends dont go out often do you guys think I should wait to start sarging when my friends are next out (10 days time) and learn some routines or just go out night gaming asap and experience AA and be completely out of my comfort level instead of going slowly into it
This applies to both day/night game:
Everyone has different levels of anxiety and going out on your own is tough but if you can do it on your own, when you go out with your friends/wing, approaching will be so much easier!
For night game:
If you do try going out on your own, don't worry too much about pickup, (if it happens it happens) but just try to be social and enjoy yourself. Before you get to your venue ask people for the time, where xyz is or whatever to warm up. In the queue, just make small talk with people and don't be afraid to make a bit of small talk or a little joke with the bouncer/doorman. They appreciate this because most guys usually see them as an annoyance instead of a friend.
Once you're inside, have a relaxed smile on your face and try to open the first person group or whoever you see, even if it's just to ask for the time. Make sure you speak loud too, really loud! It demonstrates confidence. After this you want to make sure that you don't get stale, just talk to anyone (guys, girls, groups of 2/3) and if you see a target that you'd like to open just do it. Situational openers are universal, for example you can open guys and girls by commenting how awesome the venue is, if they know any good places to eat afterwards, on something unique they might be wearing or whatever.
With guys you quickly want to start talking about sports/cars/chicks so they know that you're not gay lol. With chicks opinion openers work well but situational openers are good too. Just make sure you have something you can immediately transition with when using a situational opener. Lastly don't worry too much about being blown out, in most cases the worst thing that happens is you get ignored, no big deal. Everyone's too pissed to realize what’s going on around them anyway. As long as you talk loudly, look social and have good body language (don't lean in when talking to people), most people will respond well to you.