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| Massa | PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 4:08 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Aug 24, 2010 3:54 pm Posts: 26 Location: Brantford, Ontario | | I'm 16, so I associate with girls around my age (15-17) mostly. One thing I've realized that girls tend to do: reject compliments. They don't believe a compliment, so they say 'no, that's not true'.
This results in one of two things: awkward silence because I don't have a response, or me arguing the compliment back to her, which is just pointless.
So what is a good way to respond to a girl disagreeing with you? If I say 'you're pretty', and she says 'no i'm not', what's a good response?
Note: I know if a girl rejects a compliment that it shows lack of confidence, and who wants that? But I'm still asking, for future reference.
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| GKS | PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2010 5:45 am | |
Joined: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:16 pm Posts: 1166 | | Rule for PUA: don't comment on the obvious. I rarely comment on her look, if in an case I do, it would be a neg like "you're lucky you're cute" or "you're kute... like my lil sister". You wanna comment her tastes instead.
By any chance, if she reject your comment, either ignore it or being C&F because those girls tend to be a lil insecured, that's why they are being modest and reject the comments. So it's best not to neg her too much since that will bring her down.
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| robizeratul | PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 4:24 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Mar 23, 2010 12:51 pm Posts: 201 | | Don't compliment her so much
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| DontBeFickle | PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 8:20 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Jan 17, 2009 4:14 am Posts: 127 | | lollll just agree with her.
sexy freckles..
nooo thurrr not ahaha - just fishin for another compliment. see it from a mile away, almost looking down on it...
haha yeah your right, they suck!
followed by a playfull hit from her
then intercourse _________________ Never
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| Turbo | PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 9:04 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 27, 2010 3:09 am Posts: 182 Location: Michigan | | With girls in highschool, be more specific. Don't just say "you look hot." Say, "I like your nails (or shoes, dress, outfit, hair, etc.)"
I actually learned that from a girl in highschool _________________ -->Turbo<--
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| Mungo | PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 9:48 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Jul 10, 2010 12:53 pm Posts: 124 | | Or just call her on it. Say something about how she's obviously very bad at taking a compliment, and how that shows that she's being insecure.
It argues the point that the compliment was truthful without you having to argue it expressively yourself, it shows that you have the integrity not to say "och yeah, I totally mean it" thus getting caught on her compliment fish-hook, it DHVs by making you seem like you know her sooo well and it makes her qualify yourself to you. And while it strengthens the original compliment, it negs her in saying that she's insecure, so you neg her without bringing her down. _________________ Mungo's presentation:
here-vp376783.html#376783
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 10:19 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:30 am Posts: 1800 Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | how about just don't compliment her in the first place? unless it's "dam, you make good sammich" _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

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