Well my argument doesn't have a lot of backing to it only my observations and a Asian friend who told me how black people are vied in their community. BASICALLY if I get a Asian girls #, and other Asians find out she is all of a sudden trashy and ghetto. WTF??? AND GOD FORBID her GF's find out, she will cut you off quick fast!

From what I am told, Asian parents (and even some of their offspring) tend to BELIEVE EVERY STEREOTYPE of the black man. This type of up bringing cause them to automatically see us as more of a threat which will naturally cause a lack of attraction, and to bring a black BF home would be punishable to expulsion from the house or disown meant.

I didn't want to believe it......but it seems to be true.

Any thoughts on this?

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i find the irony of this post pretty amusing.

you, yourself are sterotyping asians and making incredibly broad generalizations. you seem to be as rascist or worse than you claim they are.

yes i would imagine that there are some asian women who wouldnt want to date a black guy, just the same as there are some black guys who wouldnt want to date a hispanic girl. there are white guys who wouldnt want to date black women and black women who wouldnt want to date asian women. there are rascists in every race, and there are rascists against every race. there are as many blacks who are rascist against other races as other races who are rascist toward blacks.

bottom line is get over it, if she doesnt want to talk to you cause of your race then shes a rascist bitch and you wouldnt want to date her anyways.

hahaha I actually ran into a racist asian the other night at the club. I opened the set and was starting to kino the asian, then I tried to pull her to the dance floor and she comes up with "Hey you're a good dancer, I've seen you tonight, but I don't dance with white boys." I just decided to leave that set and move onto my next after that lol.

Although I never experienced any racsism from asian people before I have noticed that most asian women seem to be dating or married to asian men. Maybe it has something to do with the difference in their culture compared to ours and they feel that they can relate better to each other...

Well first off, I will admit I have a problem with Asian girls, but it didn't come up until I realized that what I said was true. I didn't want to believe it. But my Nigerian friend hangs with nothing but Asians. HE GETS NONE OF THEM. He has even told me that they even tell him that he has no chance, that Asians don't like black guys. So its one of those, if you hate me IMA HATE YO ASS BACK kind of things.

And to make this VERY clear. This has nothing to do with a Asian girl not wanting me.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

All people are prejudiced. It is just a matter of if they live in an environment that tries to decrease it or increase it.

Its we against them. Doesnt need to be racial, could be football team, the wrong school etc. People who are weak and insecure needs to create a group they belong to. Safety in numbers and all that shit. I would say, any girl who has such insecurities isnt worth spending time on...

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first off, I wouldnt say that all Asians are prejudice, but if you think about it, the culture of many Asian countries might play a role here. For example in China where many cities are over-populated, there is a lot of competition for jobs, wealth and many parents probably are depserate to make sure their offspring has a good future.

I believe that many Asian people are sucess-driven by nature because of this (perhaps because of values instilled by parents) and that many Asian parents also strive to live a morally correct and respectable life. Thats at least the impression ive got of the culture in some Asian countries (and from personally having been with many Asian girls and having Asian friends).

Now obviously Im not talking about avery single person with Asian roots here, but Its my impression that its true in many cases.

Maybee an Asian girl would feel worried over her parents reaction if she brought home a black boyfriend? Or maybee asian chicks just in general preferr caucasian guys or some other type? To that question Im clueless..

here's the thing.

asians won't mind sleeping/dating/ befriending/hanging out with/socializing with a black guy or white guy or any race as long as it is not something too serious.

but getting into a relationship with another race is another game as this adds complications on both person's part .

infact regardless of race, relationships add complications.

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"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

well to add to this conversation i my best friend is married to an asian girl yeah hes white but that proves they do date out of their ethnic group!

the thing is we cant judge on a persons preference, we dont criticise gay guys for liking men, we dont criticise guys who like tall or short or fat or thin girls. me personally i would only go out with a white girl, but thats my choice and who is anybody to criticise my sexual preference i know thats sounds bad but tough really!

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to add,

i know a lot of asian girls and guys who prefer dates who have different ethnicity.

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"There is always a solution to even the hardest problem in life."

"If something is important enough to you, you won't give up"

It's not about prejudice. But it has a lot of do with their definition of beauty and peer pressure.
In Asian culture, people are usually raised with expectation from society. And speaking of society, they gossip a lot. If you do something bad, the whole asian community in the city will know about it. We Asian are jealousy against each other, so general if something happens to you, they will let the whole community know so they can feel better with ruining your social status.
And okay now fast forward to the dating part, it's a girl want to date a black guy, she will have to face a lot of shits that people gonna throw at her, has to have some sort of explanation to do with her parents ( some parents are strictly only allow their kid to marry within the culture, ex. a Viet girl shouldn't marry a Thai guy etc.).
But i've seen it before, you're lucky that nowadays lot of asian are pretty open minded. It's not impossible, you just have to put in more effort.

No offense here but it could be simple preferences. I mean maybe some asian girls dont like black guys.
Not to offend u but in the country town where I'm from parents and pretty much the whole town looks down on a girl in our town whos dating some black guy...well at least a black guy who didnt grow up in our town.
Once a girl fucks some black guy and the town knows about it she's dirty and no one really wants to touch her. This is just an example tho not to offend anyone of community and stereotypes

On the other end though in college dumb white girls will walk up to black guys all the time and fuck em that day. Theres no game, no chase, I have black friends and have watched it and its just retarted. honestly I dont want to touch those girls like that, but I have seen those girls other places and they are gamed normally but..its just life man

The best thing to do is just ignore and accept the world aint fair man being this and that has its advantages and disadavantages. Simply put just say Fuck It

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how about australia? part of asia, where majority of the population are caucasian.
be specific

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