Hi,

there's a dinner party of 8 or 10 coming up with 2 girls I like. Everyone is friends (kind of, it's two interconnected circles). Girl 1 is a current FWB of mine. Girl 2, I'd like to have sex with sometime in the future.

I feel comfortable with the situation, and I know it'll be a great night in any case, however, I'd like to know how you would handle all that - to get the best out of it. Things to do/say, and things to not do/say? ... What to opt for. :)

... (I guess) what I want is to flirt with G2 so that she feels I'm into her. I will most probably tell G1 how I feel about G2 (but I don't want to abandon G1 all night). G2 on the other hand I'd like to leave in the dark about G1 and me until after sex. Still on the other hand though, if I get enough chatting time with the 2 of them, I'd like to find out what they think about a threesome. I know/assume that both of them are interested in general, but not how they feel about each other. And I don't know what G2 thinks of me at all.

What do you guys suggest?


thanks in advance!,
S.

I'm 18, but here's what I think you should do. Bring up sex casually with both of them and just talk a bit about it, then ask something along the lines of, "What do you think about threesomes?" Then do that with the other one. After that, you can't just go to both and say, "Hey, this other girl likes threesomes too, let's do it." Instead, naturally meet with both of them at the same time at the party and take them to a place where there's not much noise to make them feel comfortable around you. Then if it works, you can use kino with both at the same time which will escalate to the sex stage and that's when you find a room ;p

If they ask why you're asking them about threesomes, just say something like, "I don't know but an odd number seems more interesting." It's just an easy way to answer it without looking desperate, and it may make them laugh as well.

But you need to be romantic with both. While you talk to both of them at the party (where there's a lot of noise), keep switching from leaning in left and right to say something to her ears. But first, talk to them from a distance to show you're not too interested and since there is noise, that will give you the excuse to alternate between leaning from ear to ear to respond. While you're saying something into her ear, you can also lay your hand on her shoulder (as kino).

"I don't know but an odd number seems more interesting" - that's a great one! Thanks! (: I'll use this for sure.