So i met this girl (HB8-9) and we hit it off. She seems or seemed really attracted to me but makes comments on my sarcasm (playful negs). I take it she has insecurities. She has told me she's been cheated on before many times etc... She seems like a sweet and good girl though and has a lot of qualities i admire.


I am confused as to whether or not her making comments on my sarcasm is a shit test or real. She said it's hard to tell when i am genuine. But when i asked her to talk on the phone today, she didn't respond. I know she was talking to someone else (another potential interest). She seemed to take long to respond to my messages on IM today.I told her she was boring me (in a playful way) and went offline.

What is the best course of action to take in this situation? And am I doing something wrong?

Well you shouldn't be constantly negging a girl, anyways. The main reason you neg is to let a girl know that you aren't gonna worship her and be her lackey like a lot of other guys. In all reality, you only need to do it 2 or 3 times MAX, and that's when a woman is so full of herself that you don't stand a chance unless you knock her down from her pedestal. If she's already into you, you don't have to neg at all, just don't go AFC on her.

There's quite a bit of difference between an HB8 and an HB9 so which is she? This would be a crucial factor of whether I would lesson my negging or not.